"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The new Bible... what's the catch?

The old Bible was better?

  • Yes, the old Bible was cool, I never got lost!

    Votes: 12 70.6%
  • The new Bible rocks! Anson is just stupid.

    Votes: 5 29.4%

  • Total voters
    17

Anson

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So I go to check the Bible after a loooong time. And what do I see? Not Bible texts, I can tell you that! I could find... appendices and different kind of books, like "book of don juan" and "book of shuma ghuma" or whatever that was...

There was a fancy 6-week reading guide and all... and even a list for suggested articles

But where was a simple list of all the articles on the Bible? I mean, I tried basically EVERY link - or am I just stupid?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Page

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I am sure that the articles are in there somewhere. :)


They are down at the bottom. You have to click the title of the category in order to get to the articles under that category.
 

Anson

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Found 'em!

LMFAO!

I found it from the most obvious place; it's right under Nicholas Hill's buddy list!

ROFL!

Of course I shoud have checked under Nicholas Hill's buddy list! That's the FIRST place where you'd look for a bible!

:p :) :D ;) :p

:rolleyes:

And here's my new signature!
 

Ofus

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The new one looks a lot cooler. The old one was a lot easier to navigate and it was simpler overall.
 

Anson

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Almost 80 % of those who've answered so far agree with me. I suppose there really is a need for open criticism on this issue. Why not put the Bible articles somewhere where you can actually find them? Think about newbies who don't really even know what the DJ Bible is; how long is it gonna take them to find these posts from where they've been hidden? The current result of the voting tells me: quite a long time.

Besides, the new Bible is uglier than the ass of a crapping donkey. I know some people might disagree, but I suppose I'm just one of those people who think that simplicity is more elegant :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bungo Pony

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I think things should be reversed on that page. The main bible should pop up, then have a link to "what's new" and all the other misc stuff. It took me a while to figure out where the **** the DJ bible was.
 

Nicholas Hill

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Besides, the new Bible is uglier than the ass of a crapping donkey. I know some people might disagree, but I suppose I'm just one of those people who think that simplicity is more elegant
I admire your kind commentary!

Hey this thread is all under my nose...

(Nick walks toward the door, muttering)
 

Anson

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Originally posted by Nicholas Hill
I admire your kind commentary!

Hey this thread is all under my nose...

(Nick walks toward the door, muttering)
lmao :D

Now that you're here... why not move the Bible texts to a place where you can actually find them? ;)
 

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Thank you, Nicholas! :)

Guess it's time for me to find a new signature for myself... too bad... I was kinda getting fond with my current one :(

There! No more making fun of this Brit in my signature!
 

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And everyone lived happily ever after!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aztec

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Really Nicholas Hill, the old (original) DJ Bible format is much easier to read. This is not a personal attack. Please don't get hurt.
 

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The best thing about the old one was the logo at the top. That was very cool.... apart from that I like what Nicholas has done. Lots more to do and see. Like a fairground.
 
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