Aurora Demon
Senior Don Juan
A lot of people we perceive as high-value—strippers, fraternity guys who get a lot of girls, superstars, etc.—are often put on a pedestal. Wouldn't it feel amazing to hook up with a stripper or become a famous star? But in reality, these people don’t always hold the value that others project onto them. The same goes for very attractive women.
Many of them, despite the external image, have low internal value. They are often depressed, struggling in other areas of life, and lacking in balance. Why? Because they excel at one thing—the external. That’s what we see.
A stripper dances. That’s what you notice at the club. You don’t see her studying, talking with her family, or wrestling with personal issues. A superstar can sing—but that’s the only part we see on TV. A frat guy might pull a lot of girls, but he could be failing out of college and dealing with depression.
What inspired this was someone I know. Arie once said that this person appeared extremely high-value—he had a hot girlfriend, was good-looking, outgoing, a great storyteller, and people loved being around him. But under the surface, there was a lot going on.
It made me realize: You cannot judge people.
Bono once said about heroin addicts:"I'd never comment on drugs really, other than to say don't judge people too harshly—you don't know what they've been through."
Don’t judge girls. Don’t judge family. Don’t think in terms of someone’s “value.” Accept people for who they are, trulyare. Some who appear high-value are hollow inside. Others who seem “low-value” are centered, passionate, and fulfilled. See through the surface.
Balance Is Everything
People with low internal value are usually imbalanced. They search constantly for external validation to fill a void. They might be excellent at one thing—dancing, singing, picking up girls—but that’s it.
Instead, work on everything. Pick-up won’t solve all your problems. Sure, sometimes imbalance can push you to grow. But to build real, internal value, you must work on your whole life:
Growth Is Life
Be open to new ideas. Constantly evolve. As Tony Robbins said:"When you stop growing, you die."
And I see so many people who are already dead inside. Not physically, but mentally. You feel it when you talk to them—they’re dimmed, disconnected. Those who chase only external value rarely evolve. They think their one skill is enough, and once they “make it,” they’re set.
Bull****.
Happiness is a journey, not a destination. You won’t suddenly wake up one day as an elite player and find that all your problems have disappeared. That day won’t come.
Instead, enjoy every moment:Every girl you talk to.Every word you speak.Every time you get blown out.Every challenge you face.
All of it is part of the journey. And the number one rule?Have fun.If you’re not having fun, you won’t last. You’ll burn out. People quit because they stop enjoying the process. Persistence is everything—whether in pick-up, career, or fitness. You will face challenges. You must keep going.
For me, success is my only option. Failure isn’t.But I also know: there is no destination.Success is now. It’s in the struggle. It’s in the growth.This road is one-way. There is no going back. It’s neverending.
Positivity Powers the Journey
Learn to associate positivity with the process. You’re driven by pain and pleasure—so rewire your brain. If going out feels painful, you’ll stop. If it feels exciting, you’ll keep going.
Find a wing you vibe with. Someone who makes going out fun. Don’t become dependent, but enjoy the companionship. Accept that you’ll never fully “make it.” There is no grand golden day when you become a master pick-up artist.
You’ll always evolve. You’ll always grow. You’ll never die.Even when your body dies, your presence will remain—because you embraced a life of growth, passion, and positive energy.
True High Value
When you live this way, being “high value” won’t matter. You won’t think in those terms anymore.
Why?
Because “value” implies comparison:She’s low value. I’m high value.Irrelevant.
You can talk to anyone. You don’t need to prove anything. You know who you are. You’re centered. Not better or worse—just you. And you put your real personality out there. No masks. You give people a chance to connect. To grow. Whether it’s a 10-second coffee order or a million-dollar business deal—make it win-win.
All people are inherently good. And if someone rejects you? It doesn’t matter. You don’t know their story. Maybe her best friend just died. Maybe she lost her job. You don’t judge.
Judgment is a mask for insecurity.
Instead, believe in yourself fully.Radiate pure confidence—not ego.
Confidence attracts. Arrogance repels.Confidence gives. Arrogance takes. You don’t take value—you bring it. You approach not because society says you should, but because your soul says so.
You offer a woman the chance to know the real you. No games. No routines. Pure presence. If she walks away, no judgment. You love women, you love the connection. You don’t need anything from them—not sex, not attention, not approval.
You define you. Not your lay count. Not her reaction. Not society.
Know that.
Focus only on what you can control. Accept what you can’t. Be a man of action. Change what you can. Be who you want to be.
Live in your reality—not someone else’s.
And here’s the twist: even though you no longer crave validation, people will be drawn to you anyway. You’ll improve their lives. You’ll improve your life. And you’ll improve the world—just by being you.
That’s what this is all about.Putting your true self on the line. No gimmicks. No manipulation. No lines. No value-taking.
Just you.
When I reach that level, I’ll let you know.
Every day I grow and get a little closer. I’m still far off. But for the minutes I’ve been writing this, I’ve been fully present. No validation-seeking. No taking. Just giving.
Growth. Presence. Beauty. Life.
I know I’ll never fully arrive at this level.Because there is no final level.Perfection is an illusion.But I’m here—imperfect and evolving.
And I refuse to die.
Much love,
Aurora Demon
Many of them, despite the external image, have low internal value. They are often depressed, struggling in other areas of life, and lacking in balance. Why? Because they excel at one thing—the external. That’s what we see.
A stripper dances. That’s what you notice at the club. You don’t see her studying, talking with her family, or wrestling with personal issues. A superstar can sing—but that’s the only part we see on TV. A frat guy might pull a lot of girls, but he could be failing out of college and dealing with depression.
What inspired this was someone I know. Arie once said that this person appeared extremely high-value—he had a hot girlfriend, was good-looking, outgoing, a great storyteller, and people loved being around him. But under the surface, there was a lot going on.
It made me realize: You cannot judge people.
Bono once said about heroin addicts:"I'd never comment on drugs really, other than to say don't judge people too harshly—you don't know what they've been through."
Don’t judge girls. Don’t judge family. Don’t think in terms of someone’s “value.” Accept people for who they are, trulyare. Some who appear high-value are hollow inside. Others who seem “low-value” are centered, passionate, and fulfilled. See through the surface.
Balance Is Everything
People with low internal value are usually imbalanced. They search constantly for external validation to fill a void. They might be excellent at one thing—dancing, singing, picking up girls—but that’s it.
Instead, work on everything. Pick-up won’t solve all your problems. Sure, sometimes imbalance can push you to grow. But to build real, internal value, you must work on your whole life:
- Your career
- Your social life
- Your health
- Your spirituality
Growth Is Life
Be open to new ideas. Constantly evolve. As Tony Robbins said:"When you stop growing, you die."
And I see so many people who are already dead inside. Not physically, but mentally. You feel it when you talk to them—they’re dimmed, disconnected. Those who chase only external value rarely evolve. They think their one skill is enough, and once they “make it,” they’re set.
Bull****.
Happiness is a journey, not a destination. You won’t suddenly wake up one day as an elite player and find that all your problems have disappeared. That day won’t come.
Instead, enjoy every moment:Every girl you talk to.Every word you speak.Every time you get blown out.Every challenge you face.
All of it is part of the journey. And the number one rule?Have fun.If you’re not having fun, you won’t last. You’ll burn out. People quit because they stop enjoying the process. Persistence is everything—whether in pick-up, career, or fitness. You will face challenges. You must keep going.
For me, success is my only option. Failure isn’t.But I also know: there is no destination.Success is now. It’s in the struggle. It’s in the growth.This road is one-way. There is no going back. It’s neverending.
Positivity Powers the Journey
Learn to associate positivity with the process. You’re driven by pain and pleasure—so rewire your brain. If going out feels painful, you’ll stop. If it feels exciting, you’ll keep going.
Find a wing you vibe with. Someone who makes going out fun. Don’t become dependent, but enjoy the companionship. Accept that you’ll never fully “make it.” There is no grand golden day when you become a master pick-up artist.
You’ll always evolve. You’ll always grow. You’ll never die.Even when your body dies, your presence will remain—because you embraced a life of growth, passion, and positive energy.
True High Value
When you live this way, being “high value” won’t matter. You won’t think in those terms anymore.
Why?
Because “value” implies comparison:She’s low value. I’m high value.Irrelevant.
You can talk to anyone. You don’t need to prove anything. You know who you are. You’re centered. Not better or worse—just you. And you put your real personality out there. No masks. You give people a chance to connect. To grow. Whether it’s a 10-second coffee order or a million-dollar business deal—make it win-win.
All people are inherently good. And if someone rejects you? It doesn’t matter. You don’t know their story. Maybe her best friend just died. Maybe she lost her job. You don’t judge.
Judgment is a mask for insecurity.
Instead, believe in yourself fully.Radiate pure confidence—not ego.
Confidence attracts. Arrogance repels.Confidence gives. Arrogance takes. You don’t take value—you bring it. You approach not because society says you should, but because your soul says so.
You offer a woman the chance to know the real you. No games. No routines. Pure presence. If she walks away, no judgment. You love women, you love the connection. You don’t need anything from them—not sex, not attention, not approval.
You define you. Not your lay count. Not her reaction. Not society.
Know that.
Focus only on what you can control. Accept what you can’t. Be a man of action. Change what you can. Be who you want to be.
Live in your reality—not someone else’s.
And here’s the twist: even though you no longer crave validation, people will be drawn to you anyway. You’ll improve their lives. You’ll improve your life. And you’ll improve the world—just by being you.
That’s what this is all about.Putting your true self on the line. No gimmicks. No manipulation. No lines. No value-taking.
Just you.
When I reach that level, I’ll let you know.
Every day I grow and get a little closer. I’m still far off. But for the minutes I’ve been writing this, I’ve been fully present. No validation-seeking. No taking. Just giving.
Growth. Presence. Beauty. Life.
I know I’ll never fully arrive at this level.Because there is no final level.Perfection is an illusion.But I’m here—imperfect and evolving.
And I refuse to die.
Much love,
Aurora Demon
