"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Nerdy Dork Approach

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So my friend is setting me up on this blind date with this pretty hot chick. He says she's cool and pretty down to earth but go through alot of guys. He also told me even though she's somewhat grounded she knows she's hot ****. So from everything that he's told me i decided to use this as a great learning experience and test out a new approach/date method.

She doesn't know what i look like, but normally my friend doesn't have dorky friends. But i am going to dress up with a polo and dress pants. have the pants up really high and have white socks with black sneakers. i will also put on glasses which i normally wear. I think i will be driving so when i pick her up i will be playing some classical music. I also plan on parting my hair or combing it over to one side.

this is just an experiment for fun to see how judgemental girls are and i love these types of things.

The next part which i'm unsure of is if i should play the dj personality and act normal on the date or act dorky and talk like my nose is stuffy. I can fidget with my fingers and stutter when i talk if i want to.

i'm planning on going with dj attitude which will really confuse her and if it does lead to a second date i will dress properly.

suggestions?


I got this idea when my friend for no apparent reason decided to do this on a dinner when all our friends came back on summer vacation our sophmore year of college. We thought it was hilarious and he just acted normal.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i think acting like a nerd would just ruin the whole point of confusing and having them wonder who you really are. do u think that's overboard or no?

i still plan on going with dj attitude though.
 
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