"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Nerdy Dork Approach

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So my friend is setting me up on this blind date with this pretty hot chick. He says she's cool and pretty down to earth but go through alot of guys. He also told me even though she's somewhat grounded she knows she's hot ****. So from everything that he's told me i decided to use this as a great learning experience and test out a new approach/date method.

She doesn't know what i look like, but normally my friend doesn't have dorky friends. But i am going to dress up with a polo and dress pants. have the pants up really high and have white socks with black sneakers. i will also put on glasses which i normally wear. I think i will be driving so when i pick her up i will be playing some classical music. I also plan on parting my hair or combing it over to one side.

this is just an experiment for fun to see how judgemental girls are and i love these types of things.

The next part which i'm unsure of is if i should play the dj personality and act normal on the date or act dorky and talk like my nose is stuffy. I can fidget with my fingers and stutter when i talk if i want to.

i'm planning on going with dj attitude which will really confuse her and if it does lead to a second date i will dress properly.

suggestions?


I got this idea when my friend for no apparent reason decided to do this on a dinner when all our friends came back on summer vacation our sophmore year of college. We thought it was hilarious and he just acted normal.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i think acting like a nerd would just ruin the whole point of confusing and having them wonder who you really are. do u think that's overboard or no?

i still plan on going with dj attitude though.
 
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