"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Need to Dominate

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I think some guys are "confusing" being dominant with being domineering!

Being domineering is being a control-freak. People like this feels comfortable when in control and when not, they feel angry and desperate!

Actually control-freaks try to compensante their insecurities being like that. A true Dj is dominant not domineering.

About power struggle with women.

Probably the man is a contron-freak or the woman, or worst, both are!!

Maybe the girl is a feminist, because domineering women are feminists and when you're dealing with a feminist you just have headaches. With time, her control-freakery gets annoying and that's when the power struggle/problems begin (unless you're passive and let the woman control everything).

Don't get involved with feminists.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No hoes and giving advise,jake?

Ok,let me put it like this what makes you think your more qualified than Supreme(or anybody in the HS forum) to give advise to the boys?
 
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Originally posted by KiInCollege
Haha, well, I am amused with your points of view, P_S! As different as we are... I did not know you were once married.

No need to get so personal and make so many assumptions. You assume I'm whipped, even though I'm an experienced DJ. Of course you're trying to discredit me, but this accusation is laughable to me, as I know the truth!

Cough cough...assumptions...cough cough...and who made them again..cough cough...

You sure have a funny way about you kid.

Ok now I really gotta run. I hope yall enjoy my jake fest photo's.

No offense jakie...I'm just messin with ya dumb narrow headed ass...cough bull...cough shyt..cough cough...
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
No hoes and giving advise,jake?

Ok,let me put it like this what makes you think your more qualified than Supreme(or anybody in the HS forum) to give advise to the boys?

Why do you assume that I don't see girls? You're grasping for straws here, boy. You can't accuse someone of something when you're having as much trouble find evidence as you are.


By the same logic, P_S is grossly over-inflating himself, and so are you. You throw around 'pimp' and 'ho' way too much for a guy who gets real tail.
 

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^^Man,peep this,from now on all imma do is post my pics of mah hoes and when one of these "boys" gets outta-line i'm just gonna ask them,"Where are your hoes?" "How many hoes do you have,son?"


I mean it's ridicolous at this point to argue with virgins.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jesus, this feels like highschool or sum shyt. I am not a virgin, you moron.
 

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Originally posted by jakethasnake
Why do you assume that I don't see girls? You're grasping for straws here, boy. You can't accuse someone of something when you're having as much trouble find evidence as you are.


By the same logic, P_S is grossly over-inflating himself, and so are you. You throw around 'pimp' and 'ho' way too much for a guy who gets real tail.
I assume you don't see girls cuz you say things like "Why do assume I don't see girls".

You've posted your pics before but no hoes.Why is that?We know you have a camera so ante-up.

I am not grossly-inflating me ego by stating that I do have women.When you play basketball you don't complain about the other team bragging about how many points they made,Jake.

Same thing here we're on a dating-forum.You're supposed to show and prove ..before I couldn't cuz I didn't have a cam but I do now and will put up hoes.

You on the other hand have a problem with all things "urban" and try to counter with symp-advsie.

So now,i'm calling you out..post your pics of your women!!
 

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^^That's all i'm saying..my pics will be up by this week,Jake. I hope you do the same.

Now back to the subject..:cool:
 
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