"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Natural DJ

Maybnoob

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Why do we hate natural DJs so much. I mean its not their fault that they happened to autmatically be able to understand their instincts when it comes to women while we cant understand those basis instincts imbedded in all of us through evolution.
Do we hate them because of jealousy or the fact that they give the crap advice because they dont know why they are successful, they just are.
Damn those naturals.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SageOFAllenAge

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There is a difference between player & DJ.

I dont know any real life DJ's myself

And the people on here dont have anything against either.
 

Newbie05

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I dont HATE any players or dj's, i ENVY them.
 

Luveno

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Once someone stops their AFC tendencies, they're a natural.
All men are destined to be in control of their sexuality.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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arq-dj1

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truely what makes someone a player and a dj? whats the difference between the two?
 

Skullcrusher

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I laugh at anyone who thinks he is a DJ under the age of 21. Please go back to your books and enjoy whatever remaining of your teen years.
 

Sir Lancelot

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Originally posted by Skullcrusher
I laugh at anyone who thinks he is a DJ under the age of 21. Please go back to your books and enjoy whatever remaining of your teen years.
Why is that? If I'm under 21, am I not capable of grabbing a hold of my life and realizing my AFC tendencies?

I don't hate natural DJs at all, I associate with them and learn from them.
 

josekortez

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I don't think anyone can be a natural DJ. I think those guys have just found techniques that worked and kept working without the help of a website.
 
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