"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybnoob

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Why do we hate natural DJs so much. I mean its not their fault that they happened to autmatically be able to understand their instincts when it comes to women while we cant understand those basis instincts imbedded in all of us through evolution.
Do we hate them because of jealousy or the fact that they give the crap advice because they dont know why they are successful, they just are.
Damn those naturals.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is a difference between player & DJ.

I dont know any real life DJ's myself

And the people on here dont have anything against either.
 
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I dont HATE any players or dj's, i ENVY them.
 
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Once someone stops their AFC tendencies, they're a natural.
All men are destined to be in control of their sexuality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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arq-dj1

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truely what makes someone a player and a dj? whats the difference between the two?
 
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I laugh at anyone who thinks he is a DJ under the age of 21. Please go back to your books and enjoy whatever remaining of your teen years.
 
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Sir Lancelot

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Originally posted by Skullcrusher
I laugh at anyone who thinks he is a DJ under the age of 21. Please go back to your books and enjoy whatever remaining of your teen years.
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Why is that? If I'm under 21, am I not capable of grabbing a hold of my life and realizing my AFC tendencies?

I don't hate natural DJs at all, I associate with them and learn from them.
 
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I don't think anyone can be a natural DJ. I think those guys have just found techniques that worked and kept working without the help of a website.
 
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