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The myth of women throwing themselves at tall, rich, ripped "Chads"

Hamurabimbi

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I see this nonsense repeated so often on the internet, and I'm convinced nobody could possibly be basing it on actual life experience or observation. It's just an easily digestible mantra that gets mindlessly parroted enough that people start believing it.

The myth isn't that women all want a small subset of men, it's that this small subset of chosen men is chosen for being tall, rich, and ripped. These attributes can help, but they're all pretty far down the list of what attracts women. Based on my own observation, rather than on internet/pop culture tropes, I can list a bunch of characteristics that are better predictors of how easily a man gets laid:

  • Comfortable, relaxed mannerisms

  • Extraversion

  • Confidence/self-assuredness

  • Wittiness

  • Ability to ramble and avert awkward silence

  • Tendency to make wisecracks and sexual innuendos, rather than serious logical statements

  • Spontaneity/unpredictability

  • Popularity/leader of social group

  • Attractive face

  • Good style (hair, clothes, etc.)

The strain of thought behind this myth takes on other forms, too:

"Bro, just lift weights, focus on your career, and the women will come!" Men absolutely should lift weights and put effort into building a solid career, but if you're struggling with women, becoming a Greek statue who earns $200k/yr still won't remotely turn you into a chick magnet.

"Women's standards aren't that high, I see hot women walking around with regular dudes all the time!" In these cases, regular just means the guy isn't a jacked Adonins, but make no mistake, the guy is not average. He probably embodies most if not all of the traits listed above. These examples don't prove that women aren't brutally selective; they are, but mostly on traits that don't jump out instantly.

And on the other side of this coin, the whole stereotype of guys who can't get laid as fat, unemployed, basement-dwelling, Cheeto dust-coated losers is BS. Guys who struggle to get laid are far more likely to be socially anxious, hyperlogical introverts with bad to mediocre facial genetics.
Define ‘Throwing themselves ‘.
 

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Believe it or not, men actually hold all the power not women. Us men can make women attracted to us based on how we behave…women don’t have that power.
How should we behave?

Yes, being a ”hot” woman seems like the best position to have on the surface, but their physical attractiveness is all they have.
Isn’t that all the man wants? Young, fertile and hot. Generally men hate any type of “maturity, knowledge, experience, or wisdom” in women. They just want her to be young and fertile, and look good,

Take a note from Hollywood. For the movie to blow up or the tv show to be popular, or even music, the women they cast are generally young and hot and fertile. Imagine if Amy Farrah Fowler lived across the hall of Leonard and Sheldon instead of Penny?

Rock on!
 

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Every guy I know who is under 5'10 , has this belief pattern that because I am 6'2, women catch UBERs to my place, and Ive got them lined up.

Truth of the matter is, This last fortnight I've had 0 choosing signals from women, I think one woman about 45 smiled at me in a lustful manner in the supermarket.. Woopie doo



Women dont care anymore, they think men are clowns
 

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Yall will never know the life of Chad because he lives a completely different life than us. Yes, he has no problems attracting girls, but they get played by women like regular men do and have to constantly deal with females which is a curse.
 

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Every guy I know who is under 5'10 , has this belief pattern that because I am 6'2, women catch UBERs to my place, and Ive got them lined up.

Truth of the matter is, This last fortnight I've had 0 choosing signals from women, I think one woman about 45 smiled at me in a lustful manner in the supermarket.. Woopie doo



Women dont care anymore, they think men are clowns
I’ve known plenty of tall guys that don’t get p$$y. But I’ve never seen a handsome incel.
 

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So what are you suggesting then? Be handsome?
More that I’m supporting Derby1’s post. Being tall, in and off itself, wont necessarily get women. As he says. I would argue that being handsome is a bigger predictor of a woman’s interest than being tall. Now, a handsome guy who’s fat or very short will still have big challenges.
 
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