"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The myth of the good-looking librarian woman

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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r0cky said:
What are you talking about? Most of those girls are HB9s.
And that room is just bursting with energy.
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Somebody mentioned people hang out with others of similiar attractiveness.

Ain't that the truth.

I am on the good-looking side myself and ALL of my friends are good-looking.
 
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what in the hell were you expecting?

A librarian is not a job that attractive women flock to. If you want a hot girl then look at jobs and majors in college like teaching, veterinary medicine, nursing, journalism, psychology, etc. Basically business majors and other not too challenging courses. Honestly, I just have not met a girl who is really hot and really smart. They're either one or the other.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sprint said:
what in the hell were you expecting?

A librarian is not a job that attractive women flock to. If you want a hot girl then look at jobs and majors in college like teaching, veterinary medicine, nursing, journalism, psychology, etc. Basically business majors and other not too challenging courses. Honestly, I just have not met a girl who is really hot and really smart. They're either one or the other.
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They do exist, very hard to find them though.

The smartest most attractive girl i know is actually in law school. i'd say an 8 overall. She's irish, has a great personality, very nice body, and a hairtrigger temper. She's also tiny, 5'2'' and riduculously cute.

Dated her a few times, nothing came of it.

We mutually ended it, She's the Elaine to my Jerry.But hanging out with her is the funniest **** ever, i've seen this tiny creature berate club bouncers (6 foot tall, 240 pounds and shredded) till she's red in the face, and the bouncer is like "WTF do i do now?"
 
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Corona said:
What about this ugly guy?
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Those two kinda look like siblings.

I know one pretty hot 25 y.o librarian chick, but she's packing on the weights fast...

Don't know many of them librarians, so I can't generalize.
 
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