"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The myth of the good-looking librarian woman

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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r0cky said:
What are you talking about? Most of those girls are HB9s.
And that room is just bursting with energy.
Somebody mentioned people hang out with others of similiar attractiveness.

Ain't that the truth.

I am on the good-looking side myself and ALL of my friends are good-looking.
 

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what in the hell were you expecting?

A librarian is not a job that attractive women flock to. If you want a hot girl then look at jobs and majors in college like teaching, veterinary medicine, nursing, journalism, psychology, etc. Basically business majors and other not too challenging courses. Honestly, I just have not met a girl who is really hot and really smart. They're either one or the other.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sprint said:
what in the hell were you expecting?

A librarian is not a job that attractive women flock to. If you want a hot girl then look at jobs and majors in college like teaching, veterinary medicine, nursing, journalism, psychology, etc. Basically business majors and other not too challenging courses. Honestly, I just have not met a girl who is really hot and really smart. They're either one or the other.
They do exist, very hard to find them though.

The smartest most attractive girl i know is actually in law school. i'd say an 8 overall. She's irish, has a great personality, very nice body, and a hairtrigger temper. She's also tiny, 5'2'' and riduculously cute.

Dated her a few times, nothing came of it.

We mutually ended it, She's the Elaine to my Jerry.But hanging out with her is the funniest **** ever, i've seen this tiny creature berate club bouncers (6 foot tall, 240 pounds and shredded) till she's red in the face, and the bouncer is like "WTF do i do now?"
 

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Corona said:
What about this ugly guy?
Those two kinda look like siblings.

I know one pretty hot 25 y.o librarian chick, but she's packing on the weights fast...

Don't know many of them librarians, so I can't generalize.
 
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