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The mystery of chemistry

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If there's already a post on chemistry, please post a link.

I've been thinking lately about what this "chemistry" thing is. I meet this girly at a club and we chatted for a little bit. I number closed and gave her a call a few days later.

We chatted and we hooked up to play mini-golf and kicked it for a while afterwards.

On "paper", the girls is my type perfectly. She's got a killer body a 7-8 on the face. Is totally cool and super intelligent.
So you'd figure that i'd "click" with her. But it didn't happen.

What's got me stumped is that i don't know why I didn't click with her. Like i said, the girl fits my type perfectly.

Have any of you playboys experienced the same thing? Any insight?

-iceH
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Man Chemistry is crazy, I really dont understand it. Just seems to be some kind of personality click, maybe something to do with brain chemistry, not sure. But no matter what is "on paper" it doest mean nada. Although I rarely just "click" with a girl. Infact has probably only happened to me with a few girls in the past year. 3 of them were hot, and one was sorta ugly, go figure. And that is considering I have probably met about 300 girls in the last year, not good odds but hey........what can u do.......
 
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i know where you're coming from, am in a similar sit myself. personality might be the catch? there's a girl i've been seeing for awhile now who i'm going to have to distance things with because she's coming on too heavy. while i dig her body, face, sensuality, sense of humor, her views on things, and her upbringing, there are things about her personality that drive me crazy. and some of it, the hell if i can pinpoint exactly what it is. its unfortunate because in most ways we'd be a perfect match. oh well another hb on the way as i type this :)
-jlc
 
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I agree, if a girl's personality is a certain type, it totally turns me off, no matter how hot she is, or how many other ways we click.
 
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