The MYSTERIOUS "other woman" who's just a FRIEND, Interest Level Insight

[NeverFear]

Recently I was chasing ( of course she didn't know it) a girl so that we could date but discovered something about interest level along the way.

This girl KNEW i was spending time with another girl, and kept dropping hints about her. But she didn't know who she was. WHenever she'd ask questions, id be evasive. I could see that she was very interested in this other girl.

So my tip is this:

If you have female friends that you DONT date they can be used to increase interest level with other women. Keep it to yourself that you are only friends. It raises the challenge game like you cannot believe

 

[sux2bu]

It's called: social proof.

It can sometimes backfire on you, though.

 

[EternalBachelor]

I used a very similar tactic this summer unwittingly, and it worked like you would not believe.

What I did was let it slip, when a girl at work asked what my evening plans were, that I was going to a concert with a female friend (key is to make it an activity that can be misinterpreted as a date), then switch the topic (e.g. ask what they are up to)

If she is the slightest bit interested in you, she will try and interrogate you next time you see her about how it went, and whether she is your girlfriend. Evade the questions as best as you can, and then after she breaks through that vehemently deny the fact, in an overly defensive manner.

You can bet that her interest level will shoot up rapidly and she will be full of curiosity and suspicion.

It is likely she will ask you why you are not her boyfriend, in which case you need a damn good excuse which does not make you look AFC.

One good approach is to mention a quality that she lacks that the girl you are interested in has (be subtle on this one). Another is to say it is none of her business, and you do not consider it polite to discuss (mention her name-hitherto unmentioned) behind her back.

Hope this helps someone.