"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The MYSTERIOUS "other woman" who's just a FRIEND, Interest Level Insight

NeverFear

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Recently I was chasing ( of course she didn't know it) a girl so that we could date but discovered something about interest level along the way.

This girl KNEW i was spending time with another girl, and kept dropping hints about her. But she didn't know who she was. WHenever she'd ask questions, id be evasive. I could see that she was very interested in this other girl.

So my tip is this:

If you have female friends that you DONT date they can be used to increase interest level with other women. Keep it to yourself that you are only friends. It raises the challenge game like you cannot believe
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sux2bu

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It's called: social proof.

It can sometimes backfire on you, though.
 

EternalBachelor

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I used a very similar tactic this summer unwittingly, and it worked like you would not believe.

What I did was let it slip, when a girl at work asked what my evening plans were, that I was going to a concert with a female friend (key is to make it an activity that can be misinterpreted as a date), then switch the topic (e.g. ask what they are up to)

If she is the slightest bit interested in you, she will try and interrogate you next time you see her about how it went, and whether she is your girlfriend. Evade the questions as best as you can, and then after she breaks through that vehemently deny the fact, in an overly defensive manner.

You can bet that her interest level will shoot up rapidly and she will be full of curiosity and suspicion.

It is likely she will ask you why you are not her boyfriend, in which case you need a damn good excuse which does not make you look AFC.

One good approach is to mention a quality that she lacks that the girl you are interested in has (be subtle on this one). Another is to say it is none of her business, and you do not consider it polite to discuss (mention her name-hitherto unmentioned) behind her back.

Hope this helps someone.
 
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