"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the mysapce finale: PLEASE HELP

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Don Juan
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background info quickly
1) no dj boot camp for me, yet
2) 28yrs old, 145lb, white, athletic/handsome, borderline good/ great job
3) met 5 or 6 girls off myspace (for a quick breakfast) & my afcness assured no second dates, none
4) have had flashes of dj-ness for long periods, mostly when i used to drink
5) i dont drink, i have began an anti depressant recently which has had a positve effect

ok, so...
1) i have been talking to this girl on myspace & and am assertive & attractive to her therein---i get long email replies, explanations, and some bull**** testing from her
2) she is moving away in less than three weeks
3) i have just gotten her phone number
4) she has stated that unless we "hit it off" (upon meeting)i have little chance of getting any play

the questions are
1) can i call her today(friday) and break the sun/mon/tues call rule? i have told her i am very busy, which i am, i usually work 7 night p/week & i have this weekend off, a true rarity
2) should i even bother-if i am looking to get some play?
3) can i break the 'quick' first date rule, and if so how?
4) if so should i try to include a cool friend (w his date) or not?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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