"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the mysapce finale: PLEASE HELP

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background info quickly
1) no dj boot camp for me, yet
2) 28yrs old, 145lb, white, athletic/handsome, borderline good/ great job
3) met 5 or 6 girls off myspace (for a quick breakfast) & my afcness assured no second dates, none
4) have had flashes of dj-ness for long periods, mostly when i used to drink
5) i dont drink, i have began an anti depressant recently which has had a positve effect

ok, so...
1) i have been talking to this girl on myspace & and am assertive & attractive to her therein---i get long email replies, explanations, and some bull**** testing from her
2) she is moving away in less than three weeks
3) i have just gotten her phone number
4) she has stated that unless we "hit it off" (upon meeting)i have little chance of getting any play

the questions are
1) can i call her today(friday) and break the sun/mon/tues call rule? i have told her i am very busy, which i am, i usually work 7 night p/week & i have this weekend off, a true rarity
2) should i even bother-if i am looking to get some play?
3) can i break the 'quick' first date rule, and if so how?
4) if so should i try to include a cool friend (w his date) or not?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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