"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Movie Unfaithful

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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I just saw that movie on tnt not too long ago and it made me kind of wonder. Richard Gere played a good husband in that movie. Can any master Don Juans share some ideas how to prevent a wife like in the movie from cheating in the first place?

Cuz I have no idea what the husband did wrong. Was he too much of a nice guy? Not enough c&f? Something else? Discuss.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
I just saw that movie on tnt not too long ago and it made me kind of wonder. Richard Gere played a good husband in that movie. Can any master Don Juans share some ideas how to prevent a wife like in the movie from cheating in the first place?

Cuz I have no idea what the husband did wrong. Was he too much of a nice guy? Not enough c&f? Something else? Discuss.
It's fiction So no. The movie was written so she'd cheat.

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
Can this exact situation happen in real life?
Happens all the time.
 

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that movie was alittle bit chilling the first time i seen it. it was very well done and i usually hate chick flicks. what made it disturbing to me was when the movie came out alot of the girls i went to school with, thought the cheating sexual scenes were a major turn-on. i'm glad none of them were my girlfriend.

any woman has the compacitity to cheat and with the right settings it may happen. you can be a great husband or father and it does not matter. once a womans emotions get stirred there is really nothing you can do about it.

the most disturbing thing to me, is that when a woman cheats she gets emotionally attached. unlike a man who is in it 95% of the time for sex. ever notice when women cheat they all have the same answer...."it just happened".
it's like they have no recollection of how it happened. women are ruled by emotion and when they finally get caught it's somehow always the man's fault for being a great husband or father.

that's why i've always stuck by, if a woman ever cheats on me, i would drop her and move on. because it's a bonding experience for her when she cheats.
it's like the scene where diane lane sees the guy she's cheating with, is walking down the street with another woman and she gets jealous and flips out at him. because it's not just sexual gratification anymore. she's forming a bond like all women do when they get in any cheating relationship.
 
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