"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Movie Unfaithful

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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I just saw that movie on tnt not too long ago and it made me kind of wonder. Richard Gere played a good husband in that movie. Can any master Don Juans share some ideas how to prevent a wife like in the movie from cheating in the first place?

Cuz I have no idea what the husband did wrong. Was he too much of a nice guy? Not enough c&f? Something else? Discuss.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
I just saw that movie on tnt not too long ago and it made me kind of wonder. Richard Gere played a good husband in that movie. Can any master Don Juans share some ideas how to prevent a wife like in the movie from cheating in the first place?

Cuz I have no idea what the husband did wrong. Was he too much of a nice guy? Not enough c&f? Something else? Discuss.
It's fiction So no. The movie was written so she'd cheat.

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
Can this exact situation happen in real life?
Happens all the time.
 

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that movie was alittle bit chilling the first time i seen it. it was very well done and i usually hate chick flicks. what made it disturbing to me was when the movie came out alot of the girls i went to school with, thought the cheating sexual scenes were a major turn-on. i'm glad none of them were my girlfriend.

any woman has the compacitity to cheat and with the right settings it may happen. you can be a great husband or father and it does not matter. once a womans emotions get stirred there is really nothing you can do about it.

the most disturbing thing to me, is that when a woman cheats she gets emotionally attached. unlike a man who is in it 95% of the time for sex. ever notice when women cheat they all have the same answer...."it just happened".
it's like they have no recollection of how it happened. women are ruled by emotion and when they finally get caught it's somehow always the man's fault for being a great husband or father.

that's why i've always stuck by, if a woman ever cheats on me, i would drop her and move on. because it's a bonding experience for her when she cheats.
it's like the scene where diane lane sees the guy she's cheating with, is walking down the street with another woman and she gets jealous and flips out at him. because it's not just sexual gratification anymore. she's forming a bond like all women do when they get in any cheating relationship.
 
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