"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The movie, "The 40-year old virgin"

MackJr

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I kind of wonder why there isn't a thread on this movie here. It covers several basic DJ principles, even if it doesn't go into advanced mackology.

There are 4 important male characters in the movie, 3 of whom try to help one of them, who is a virgin, to learn sexual skills and get laid. They are:

Andy, main character, 40 year-old virgin
Jay, Black player,
David, AFC with serious oneitis.
Cal, a dude who gets laid frequently via going after easy chicks.

While it's a comedy, I think it hits on some of the important scenarios, even if the guy didn't always do the "DJ" move at the time.

For example, in one scenario, the lead female throws the "no sex" test at him. He throws it back at her, she escalates, it gets out of control, and they end up with a 20 dates before sex agreement. Definitely not a DJ move on his part, but I've had the "no-sex" test thrown at me before, and it is something that anyone aspiring to DJ or PUA status has to deal with.

Did anyone see any good advice in it, or just have any useful comments based on it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Joe The Homophobe

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why did they make him wax his chest? don't tell me this script was written by some feminist dyke who wanted to brainwash men into thinking that doing the metrosexual thing like waxing your chest will get you chicks.

just more hollywood brainwashing.
 

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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
why did they make him wax his chest?
Because it's hilarious to see Steve Carrell get hair brutally ripped off his chest :)

On a more serious note, some really hairy dudes wax stuff. My one high school spanish teacher used to wax his back cause it was hairy, and he pulls girls like no one's business. I know this cause we went to Spain with spanish club and went out to clubs, it was astounding to see the man mack on so many women.
 

MackJr

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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
why did they make him wax his chest? don't tell me this script was written by some feminist dyke who wanted to brainwash men into thinking that doing the metrosexual thing like waxing your chest will get you chicks.

just more hollywood brainwashing.
It's just a style choice. Too much hair can be unappealing to some women. Some go for lots of hair, so it's just a thing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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