"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys, post anything that motivates you in here. Be it quotes, pictures, or music. Feel free to say why it motivates you.
Hey, it can even be a quote that has meaning to you, a song that pumps you up, or a meaningful picture. Try explaining what it means to you.
Im gonna post things that motivate me frequently.

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The best way to get better at this is to challenge yourself everyday and every chance you get. - Unknown

“The whole secret of existence is to have no fear. Never fear what will become of you, depend on no one. Only the moment you reject all help are you freed.”

- Buddha

Think big. Start small. Begin now. - Robin Sharma

“That which you resist, persists.” - Eckhart Tolle

"Common sense is not so common." - Voltaire

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Be prepared; "luck" is where preparation meets oppurtunity - Anthony Robbins(?)

Failing to plan, is planning to fail - Unknown

"Opportunities are brilliantly disguised as impossible situations!” - Anthony Robbins(?)

You are your only enemy. You are your only friend.
The world reflects what is in your mind because your mind is
the amalgamation of all your perceptions and experiences. - Pook

Requirem for a dream - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zE-rD8vcY4U

"As you think, you shall become!" - Pook

Anytime you feel your insecurities holding you back, tell yourself,
"I only live life once!"
under your breath. Put your head down, full-steam ahead, and don’t even look back! - Unknown

"Courage is being scared to death--and saddling up anyway." - Unknown

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http://i56.tinypic.com/334m33l.jpg - www.teamhoyt.com - Extremely motivational. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=64A_AJjj8M4&feature=related

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No excuses, just do it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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[My favorite British war poster]

Take the risk,
Forget the fall.
If it's what you want,
It's worth it all. [Unknown]

Waste time and time will waste you. [Pook]

Endure. [Pook]

We are the sum of our habits. [Aristotle]
 
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Look up Richard McCann. He did a motivational speech in my school and basically his mom was murdered, been in and out of jail for taking drugs, and really didn't have a nice childhood. But he turned it around and got his act together. I really can't do his story justice though.
 
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"Deserve Victory" -Terry Goodkind
even though this is from a fantasy book, reading these stories has without a doubt changed my life..i highly recommend the "sword of truth" series...alot of great philosophical ideas behind the story
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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“Remember the two benefits of failure. First, if you do fail, you learn what doesn't work; and second, the failure gives you the opportunity to try a new approach.”

-Roger Von Oech

“There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.”

-Colin Powell

Great song to run to: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gnm2jFAG_Pc&feature=channel_video_title
 
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"True love cannot be found where it truly does not exist, Nor can it be hidden where it truly does." Okay, that was sort of mushy, but it's true :)

This next one is one of my favourites.

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
-Marianne Williamson

SO true. Whenever I feel down, I can read this and be in a better mood instantly.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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YoYoRocks said:
UKFDubstep for the win!
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Haha damn straight!

mr_guido said:
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
-Marianne Williamson

SO true. Whenever I feel down, I can read this and be in a better mood instantly.
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Ohh I like that one..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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