"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Motivation Manual: Introduction

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Welcome my friends to the introduction to what I believe, is my most inspirational & success-creating compilation of posts I have ever written. Many people here know I have studied/practised extensively on making myself become a better man & am a firm believer in "forgetting about girls and focus on yourself" techniques. The first part to this series will be about finding out what you want and from then on it will all be about motivation.

Motivation is the only thing you really need. and i have done ALOT of research in to the topic over the last few months. The plan of this series is to provide you with enough motivation to START GETTING THINGS DONE. All the things you are going to read in this series is what made me the man I am today and is what's going to make me the man i am tomorrow.

I'm not saying that if you do these things you will become similair to me but rather, i think of motivation as a foundation. A foundation from which you build and grow from, if you are the plant then motivation is the water. Noone knows who you will become, but what you can be sure of is that you will become someone YOU WANT TO BE and motivation is the key ingredient to insure that you have an extremely exciting life.

Prepare yourselves. :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Cheatz
Yeah i need something like this combined with "how to not procastinate" :(
Everybody faces this challenge in life, it's my belief that the succesfull people are the ones who conquer it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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