"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Motivation Manual: Introduction

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Welcome my friends to the introduction to what I believe, is my most inspirational & success-creating compilation of posts I have ever written. Many people here know I have studied/practised extensively on making myself become a better man & am a firm believer in "forgetting about girls and focus on yourself" techniques. The first part to this series will be about finding out what you want and from then on it will all be about motivation.

Motivation is the only thing you really need. and i have done ALOT of research in to the topic over the last few months. The plan of this series is to provide you with enough motivation to START GETTING THINGS DONE. All the things you are going to read in this series is what made me the man I am today and is what's going to make me the man i am tomorrow.

I'm not saying that if you do these things you will become similair to me but rather, i think of motivation as a foundation. A foundation from which you build and grow from, if you are the plant then motivation is the water. Noone knows who you will become, but what you can be sure of is that you will become someone YOU WANT TO BE and motivation is the key ingredient to insure that you have an extremely exciting life.

Prepare yourselves. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Cheatz
Yeah i need something like this combined with "how to not procastinate" :(
Everybody faces this challenge in life, it's my belief that the succesfull people are the ones who conquer it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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