The Acacia Strain
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lol. hahahaLaoDa said:.as long as you are busy doing something else and are arent at the edge of your seat firing off replies about .04 seconds after she writes you something then you should be fine
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
no actually it shows that u got other **** to doo during the day so u only log on the night..The Acacia Strain said:i am in highschool and i only log on at late nights 11:00 to 12:30 usaualy...does this make me look like a ****ing loser idiot? ( i dont tink it does but i must make ssure )DD
i see, so as long as i want...
i already have a girlfriend when i say this im talking about multiple girlssexy_kuta said:no actually it shows that u got other **** to doo during the day so u only log on the night..
and who cares as long as u and the girl have something talk about and shes having fun its all good.. i believe the more talking u guys share the more comfort she gets just be careful that u dont end up in the friendzone and that results in all talking and no actions...
if ur taking to her late at night make sure u guys are dating too
same goes for all then..The Acacia Strain said:i already have a girlfriend when i say this im talking about multiple girls
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i see mine like practicly everyday...sexy_kuta said:same goes for all then..
make sure u fuking/seeing enough... if u talk to them every day/second day
try to see them at least once a week.. control yourself... too never see ur girl more than twice a week if ur havnt gone out for more than 4 months