"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The most time you should ever talk to a girl via phone/msn?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LaoDa

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for the phone not much about 10-15 minutes
you really get killed in terms of djing effectiveness once you go over that

for msn..
I dont think its as deadly as the phone when you talk for a long time just cause you can chat with girls you know on it off and on all day at work and still bang them....as long as you are busy doing something else and are arent at the edge of your seat firing off replies about .04 seconds after she writes you something then you should be fine
 

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LaoDa said:
.as long as you are busy doing something else and are arent at the edge of your seat firing off replies about .04 seconds after she writes you something then you should be fine
Lol. hahaha
 

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Whatever you want. I've chatted on the phone, MSN or via text messages to girls all night until the sun rises the next day. Or we'd start off saying hi or arranging a date then lose track of time and several hours would pass. I went on to have long term relationships with many of these girls.

It really doesn't matter just as long as the conversation is enjoyable for you both and it flows comfortably. Long conversations can help you build a deep connection with women, but if you dont capture her interest, they can bore her stupid!
 

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There is no rules! There is no limits!

"im sorry i have to hang up now. A website said that I should only be on the phone for X time. Bye"

Stop trying to find a rule and limit for absolutely everything! Its just annoying :D



Sarge On!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i am in highschool and i only log on at late nights 11:00 to 12:30 usaualy...does this make me look like a ****ing loser idiot? ( i dont tink it does but i must make ssure ) :DDD

i see, so as long as i want...
 

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The Acacia Strain said:
i am in highschool and i only log on at late nights 11:00 to 12:30 usaualy...does this make me look like a ****ing loser idiot? ( i dont tink it does but i must make ssure ) :DDD

i see, so as long as i want...
no actually it shows that u got other **** to doo during the day so u only log on the night..

and who cares as long as u and the girl have something talk about and shes having fun its all good.. i believe the more talking u guys share the more comfort she gets just be careful that u dont end up in the friendzone and that results in all talking and no actions...
if ur taking to her late at night make sure u guys are dating too
 
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sexy_kuta said:
no actually it shows that u got other **** to doo during the day so u only log on the night..

and who cares as long as u and the girl have something talk about and shes having fun its all good.. i believe the more talking u guys share the more comfort she gets just be careful that u dont end up in the friendzone and that results in all talking and no actions...
if ur taking to her late at night make sure u guys are dating too
i already have a girlfriend when i say this im talking about multiple girls
 

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The Acacia Strain said:
i already have a girlfriend when i say this im talking about multiple girls
same goes for all then..

make sure u fuking/seeing enough... if u talk to them every day/second day

try to see them at least once a week.. control yourself... too never see ur girl more than twice a week if ur havnt gone out for more than 4 months
 

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If they are the ones that have to go or are saying good-bye first then you have been talking/chatting too long.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sexy_kuta said:
same goes for all then..

make sure u fuking/seeing enough... if u talk to them every day/second day

try to see them at least once a week.. control yourself... too never see ur girl more than twice a week if ur havnt gone out for more than 4 months
i see mine like practicly everyday...

but i mostly mean other girls...

honestly i dont geive a **** what my gf thinks about me with other girls i honestlu dont even like her that much shes just temporary..shes a very boring person

but i mean other people..
 
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