The Acacia Strain
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opinions?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lol. hahahaLaoDa said:.as long as you are busy doing something else and are arent at the edge of your seat firing off replies about .04 seconds after she writes you something then you should be fine
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
no actually it shows that u got other **** to doo during the day so u only log on the night..The Acacia Strain said:i am in highschool and i only log on at late nights 11:00 to 12:30 usaualy...does this make me look like a ****ing loser idiot? ( i dont tink it does but i must make ssure )DD
i see, so as long as i want...
i already have a girlfriend when i say this im talking about multiple girlssexy_kuta said:no actually it shows that u got other **** to doo during the day so u only log on the night..
and who cares as long as u and the girl have something talk about and shes having fun its all good.. i believe the more talking u guys share the more comfort she gets just be careful that u dont end up in the friendzone and that results in all talking and no actions...
if ur taking to her late at night make sure u guys are dating too
same goes for all then..The Acacia Strain said:i already have a girlfriend when i say this im talking about multiple girls
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i see mine like practicly everyday...sexy_kuta said:same goes for all then..
make sure u fuking/seeing enough... if u talk to them every day/second day
try to see them at least once a week.. control yourself... too never see ur girl more than twice a week if ur havnt gone out for more than 4 months