"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The most disturbing guy I've seen on the internet

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hook is to stand them up. Guns are ok, most people have guns, it's your constitutional right to have a gun. He is not stalking women, he is beyond being an AFC, he don't need no women.

A necrophiliac is not a killer, it's someone who likes dead girls. This guy likes dolls, big deal.

Now, being a sheep and negging this guy is rather average. It's to get you an ego boost. I don't find that guy that interesting. The people who try to be sheep are an object of my negging, I get a bigger ego boost from nagging those losers.
 

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While I think it's really sad that this guy has withdrawn this much into his own fantasy world...I don't think he's likely to go on a shooting rampage. He's got the dolls which are anatomically correct so he doesn't have as much pent up frustration from not having sex.

Yes, the guy clearly has issues...and people ragging on him rather than trying to help him only makes those issues worse.

Also...if you take away the guns and the dolls that guy is just like many of the guys on here...his problem is self esteem, confidence and fear of approaching and dealing with women. It's the same problem that brings thousands of other guys onto this site. And if some of you don't get your act together and take responsibility for your own choices and happiness he could be you when you are 40 years old. Just sayin...
 

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he isn´t the only one. There was also a video on youtube that showed an old guy who got married to a doll. He even showed the reporters pictures of him having sex with the doll. That´s why they removed the video from youtube...
 

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They showed him sitting by the computer and surfing the net. Maybe this guy was reading sosuave? lol think about it.

- He own's guns because he read a post by A-Unit about the right to bare arms.

- He own dolls because its a better way to release his tension then to try and date a "hor"!!!

- He is 39 years old yet his room and the way he dresses suggests he is 18. Sort of a Pookish way of not letting your age define who you are. He also doesn't care about what others think of him and he is proud of his guns and sex dolls collection because those are his "hobbies" he is passionate about.

- He probably lives in the basement with his mom because he doesn't want to go into debt after reading a recommanded sosuave book "Rich dad poor dad".

Yep this guy is on his way to become great! :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Where are you getting that quote, Wyldfire? I don't see him saying that.

And you are of course talking about those comments on that page, right? Because I'm not bashing him. I'd just prefer to learn from history rather than "hope" he doesn't do anything with his weapons.
The guys who commented on the page aren't all reading this...so my words would be wasted if they were directed at them.

The guy's problem is social anxiety and fear of dealing with women (rejection, confidence, self-esteem). Let's be honest, shall we? What percentage of the guys on this site are either suffering from the EXACT same affliction as the guy in the video? And how many of the guys here have suffered from the same affliction when they first discovered this site?

Some of the guys who refuse to hold themselves accountable and be responsible for their own choices and continue to blame women for everything are actually quite likely to end up sleeping with one of those dolls when they are 40...or at least considering it. Just keeping it real...
 

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It's ok to date and have sex with dolls. What's not OK is hating on someone who does that. Not so long ago they hated gays because they thought gays molest children. It turned out to be an ignorant thing to do.

There is only one reason to hate someone, and to put them down, that is to make yourself feel better and be accepted by the majority, aka being a sheep.

I don't think the guy has a problem. People with problems are way to hang up to make a video like that. He is proud of his life, proud enough to make a video and show it to the world.
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Ok, then where's the quote that you posted of djSlvt? Who was bashing him? (And suggesting that someone receive professional help for severe mental disorders doesn't count as bashing.)


I'll make it simple for you. You better than me.


Here is another video. This one has animal curelty and nature dumping elements in it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCGW3sAUt8g WAY MORE INTERESTING THAN A GUY PLAYING WITH DOLLS. My friend made it last summer.
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Ok, then where's the quote that you posted of djSlvt? Who was bashing him? (And suggesting that someone receive professional help for severe mental disorders doesn't count as bashing.)
A mod deleted a bunch of posts.

Sure...the guy would probably benefit from professional help. If you are going to label him as having a severe mental disorder then you also have to label over half of the members on this site as also having a severe mental disorder. That's the point I'm making. I think djSlvt was attempting to make the same connection but ended up getting sucked into arguing, which is not something he should really do. I posted what I did to remind him that he should keep the arguing in check. My reason for doing that is private and he knows why I said what I did, and it's not anyone else's business.
 

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djSlvt said:
It's ok to date and have sex with dolls. What's not OK is hating on someone who does that. Not so long ago they hated gays because they thought gays molest children. It turned out to be an ignorant thing to do.

There is only one reason to hate someone, and to put them down, that is to make yourself feel better and be accepted by the majority, aka being a sheep.

I don't think the guy has a problem. People with problems are way to hang up to make a video like that. He is proud of his life, proud enough to make a video and show it to the world.
I think he does have some issues...but nothing that many of the guys here don't also have. He should probably address the issues differently, but I agree that those attacking him are doing so to make themselves feel better...and that's not cool.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A mod deleted a bunch of posts.
If you are going to label him as having a severe mental disorder then you also have to label over half of the members on this site as also having a severe mental disorder. That's the point I'm making.
I think this guy is a lot more disturbed than the average guy on this forum. If I'm wrong, then maybe I need to hang out someplace else.

And if you think having sex with a doll is 'normal', and there's nothing wrong with it - more power to you, but, no offense, please don't put yourself in the same category of psychological health as me. Maybe it's a respectable sexual outlet for you, but I wouldn't resort to that ever, I have too much confidence in my abilities to attract a sexual partner, and too much self respect to even consider it.
 

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I think this guy is a lot more disturbed than the average guy on this forum. If I'm wrong, then maybe I need to hang out someplace else.

And if you think having sex with a doll is 'normal', and there's nothing wrong with it - more power to you, but, no offense, please don't put yourself in the same category of psychological health as me. Maybe it's a respectable sexual outlet for you, but I wouldn't resort to that ever, I have too much confidence in my abilities to attract a sexual partner, and too much self respect to even consider it.
Actually...he's really not any more disturbed than a lot of the guys on here...and frankly...he's even LESS disturbed than some. The dolls to him is what this site is for a lot of guys here. Is it healthy? Of course not. Is he hurting anyone other than perhaps himself? Nope. I find the guys who blame and hate on women for their own failures to be more disturbed than this guy...because he seems pretty content with his situation whereas the guys on here I just referred to clearly are NOT happy. If they were they would not be filled with so much hatred. Those guys are far more likely to snap and go on a shooting rampage than the guy who has sex with life like dolls.

And no...I don't have sex with dolls...nor would I. I'm a very happy, well-adjusted and healthy person. If the guy came on here and asked for input about his situation I would quite possibly tell him that he should be overcoming the social anxiety and meeting real women. However...he's not here asking for advice.

For the guys that are here...stop looking for guys you feel have bigger problems than you to give yourself an excuse to avoid working through YOUR OWN sh*t. Work on yourself and stop worrying about what anyone else is doing. That's my advice and I'm giving it because you are all supposedly here to overcome your own social anxiety and woman problems. You're not going to succeed if you are wasting your time laughing at some guy you might turn into if you don't fix your own sh*t.

That is all...
 

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Why get advice at all. No need for advice if you here to troll and get approved and validated by anonymous people some of which are real and some are not. Hey, some people make life out of it. Best part, is that the op is your average chimp, and he is here to try and fix that by trying to be better than the rest via discussing some uninteresting guy, trying to fit in. He's a sheep.

That's why none of the advice will work on this guy. Same as with the doll guy, they both don't want to change, there is no need to. Doll guy got his dolls, da_hunter got his keyboard.

Translation for the AFC: da_hunter and the doll guy in the video have a lot in common.
 

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da_hunter said:
hey if you guys have had sex with dolls, that's cool. just come out and admit it. nothing wrong with it. post some field reports.
First of all sugarbritches...I am NOT a guy. Second of all...why are you so bothered about what some complete stranger does with his time? Does it affect your life? No. Is he hurting you? No. So what is the point? Does it make you feel like more of a man or something? If so...it shouldn't.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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da_hunter said:
what? only in your inbred uneducated mind.

you're the one who's defending his right to have sex with dolls, remember? it's perfectly normal, according to you.

maybe you're related to this guy.
The point he's making is that the fact that you care so much that the guy has sex with dolls would lead one to believe that you most likely have just as many issues to resolve as the guy you've got your undies in a bunch over. I agree with him. It's not about the guy in the video...the real question is WHY DO YOU CARE SO MUCH?
 

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'everyone' - as in you and wyldfire. i didn't see anyone else in this thread defending this guy's lifestyle as 'normal', as in 'most of the guys on this board are no better than this guy'. maybe that's normal behavior for you but not for me.

i'm better than that guy. if you watched this video and recognized something that you yourself may have done in the past, and you feel like this guy is on your level, then that's fine, but don't tell me that i'm also at this level. also who are you to judge the psychological health of the board? i should hope that most of the board is miles beyond where this guy is at emotionally. even the biggest afc virgin in the high school forum. maybe you're not, but again, don't drag the rest of the board down to your level.
I don't recall anyone claiming the guy was "normal". I simply said that many of the guys here have the same Social Anxiety, lack of self-esteem, lack of confidence and fear of women as the guy who is having sex with dolls. I'm right.
 

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no you're just an idiot. you claimed that people on this board have about the same level of social anxiety and low self esteem as this guy. maybe he is on your emotional level, but don't try to tell me thatme and the rest of the board are also at the same level as this guy.
Well...seeing as the rest of the guys are not still on here ranting about how messed up the guy is...it would appear that they are a level or so above what your behavior indicates you to be at.

I'm starting to really think that the guy's dolls scare you because you want one of your own. :whistle:
 

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Good Lord you're being a drama queen. He didn't "impale" the doll...he used a hook to hang it so it looked like it was standing up.

Lonely? Sure. Eccentric? You bet. Insane? Nope.

Those dolls are sex toys. Lots of people use a wide variety of different sex toys. Is he really attached to them? Yep...I did some research about them after the video and they cost a lot of money. So he wants to be buried with them. Lost of people want to be buried with weird things. What is the big deal? Is it because he reminds you of yourself and the other guys here in the social anxiety that makes some of you be SO uncomfortable with what he's doing? Maybe it hits a little close to home. Personally, I see absolutely no difference between this guy climbing onto a silicone doll to get off and the scores of guys on here who feverishly masturbate to internet porn. Both are using things to avoid interacting and trying to have sex with a real, live woman. One isn't any more deviant than the other. So he has guns...so do lots of guys who watch porn. No difference...
 

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Let's take the weapons. It is your constitutional right to own a firearm. You must be sane to do so, thus the state has verified that. Besides, there is no telling that those are real weapons. Let's assume that they are.

Why is it disturbing? Guy like guns. He is not walking around with them. He has them in his room, he likes to enjoy his guns.

Did he point guns at the dolls? His room is small, perhaps that's the only direction he could have pointed them at, perhaps he was manipulated at doing that, because he's not that socially bright.

Bottom line on guns, he has guns, so what. I have guns too, who doesn't have guns. It's ok to have guns. People get guns because they like guns. They like to handle guns, and they like to shoot guns. Just because they own a gun don't mean they are killers. SAME AS just because I own a pack of batteries does not make me a terrorist because I posses bomb making materials.

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Let's take the impaling thing. Dolls come with hooks on their necks, he said so. You hang them to chains so that they stand up. How else would you make a doll stand up?

We seen two hooks. One in his bedroom and one in his bathroom. Thus the dolls can stand up in his bedroom and bathroom.

Bottom line on this issue is that he is not impaling the dolls. He is playing with them by moving them into different positions, such as fully erect and upright.


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Do we agree that he is insane? NO. I don't agree that he is insane. He is socially isolated, but so are many other people.

So he likes to play with dolls, that is his thing. That's how he gets off. Other people might like animals and dead people. I think bestiality and necrophilia is a lot more disturbing than having sex with a plastic doll. Don't you think so, Deus?

What that man is doing is masturbating. Some folks stick their d1ck between mattresses and hump it, some hump an exercise bench, some hump something else, this guy has a doll he humps. He have mastered that art of humping by himself.

Bottom line, it is not sick to hump a doll. People do things like that.


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The only thing that you should find disturbing, is his isolation. But then again, he prefers it that way. So let him be. You will not help the guy by labeling him a freak. :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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