"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
The Most Attractive Thing about a Woman
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
SealTeamSix
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yes .. that counts big.
but I have to say her mind.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yea.. she has to have a job!
I usually go for eyes/eyebrows, hair and face when it comes to physical appearance. Rest of the body has to be in good shape though and I love a pretty ass..
Personalitywise, she has to have a good sense of humor and she has to be 'deep' (remember: I am still talking personality here).
It's a slim figure, sleek toned legs, tight firm butt, perky but not big t*ts. Almost skinny but not crackwh*re anorexic.
Some guys like the massive t*ts even if saggy. To me it's the definitely the perkiness . Big turn on for me.
My my observations over time, these figures hold up the best.
Theres also something about the smell of nonslim women.. it's hard to describe .. sort of musky or something.
Ok, don't like b*tch personalities either, first big screen out.
Alen-Delon
Senior Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Player_Supreme
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diplomatic_lies
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However a lot of them tend to be butch....total turnoff. So rare are the chicks who are feminine, but tough enough to hold their own ground.
Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
In terms of looks, the well turned out sevens are the best. Pretty face, good proportioned figure but not too slim. Big eyes that sparkle are a plus, as are full lips and shiney hair.
And voice is important. I dated an HB9 who was gorgeous, but had a grating voice that was too loud. Big turn off.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
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Don Juan
I know a girl like that. She likes me but the thing is I don't see her that way because of that. And that we have alot of history due to the fact that we know each other since HS and before so going with her would jus be like going with a best friend or somthing but she always suggest date and stuff in a kinda technical way. I tend to be attracted to the more feminine girly girl types. The type that like to play puppy dog, or who gets sensitive when somone says someone is more beautiful than they, who giggles alot, u know the more submissive thpe. I'm a kinda macho guy and i guess with that being I'm attracted to a really feminine woman.
On the looks side, I like lovely hips (the Jlo type) that taper down to a nice pair of well shaped well co-ordinated legs. Breast dosn't need to be big, but just matching with the hips as long as they are peyky and begging for kisses
.Anasthaesium
Don Juan
personally..i go for the hips to waist ratio and a pretty face.
Like Fingers the nice back is my achilles heel too.I always fall for the back even if the face is jus a 6 or 7.Breast size is a no bar for me.
Physically, I like petite girls. Ones who weigh around 105-115 but don't look like they need a sandwich. Like someone else said, I don't care for the big boobs but I do like them perky. And for some reason I have always been attracted to skinny ankles. Probably because they're usually attached to nice toned legs and a tight little azz
.PS: I don't like big butts and I cannot lie.