The more fake you are

[BaronOfHair]

Dread game is manipulation, i.e. learned behaviour.

We so often pretend than manipulation is inherently immoral/evil, despite the fact that civilization itself would be impossible, if we weren't all manipulating each other in some fashion

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Oh now it's clearer!
And yes, as a men you want the "stoic self-control state" in your life! That's right.
So how could you live in an LTR with a women that need "chaos"?
If you have an LTR with "stoic self-control state" We know that the women will feel bored and leave.
I see so many LTR where there is a lot of argue which brings excitement which will explode in hot sex.
This is what an LTR should look like?
Basically an hero journey chart?
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FFS work on moving out of Italy OP. They are the worst women in the world in terms of attitude.

 

[BaronOfHair]

They are the worst women in the world in terms of attitude.

Worse than Ghetto and Trailer Park chicks here in The US?

 

[jhonny9546]

We so often pretend than manipulation is inherently immoral/evil, despite the fact that civilization itself would be impossible, if we weren't all manipulating each other in some fashion

I see it like living life by intentionally influencing your luck. For instance, if you want to attend an event with 100 people you like, you can manipulate your actions to make that happen. If you have a crush on someone, you can manipulate your actions to increase the chances of being seen by her and making a move. Similarly, if you're unhappy with your job, you can manipulate your time to study for a new profession.
In essence, I see it as manipulating our daily tasks and choices.

The idea of the 'dread game' with another human being, whether it's wife or cousin, is similar.
It involves manipulating events to achieve a desired outcome.
So if I see my wife reading all the time, and having no sex, instead of telling her "you should stop reading" "you're absent", etc etc, I could bring her a spicy romance novel and that would change the outcome.
This is just an example.

 

[jhonny9546]

FFS work on moving out of Italy OP. They are the worst women in the world in terms of attitude.

This is interesting! Why? Do you make a comparision with other women you had?
What about japanese women?

 

[jhonny9546]

If dominance doesn't come naturally to you, adopting a 'dominant frame' will work well enough to fool most women.

Would this make you arrogant or look like a "fake" *******?

 

[BaronOfHair]

I see it like living life by intentionally influencing your luck. For instance, if you want to attend an event with 100 people you like, you can manipulate your actions to make that happen. If you have a crush on someone, you can manipulate your actions to increase the chances of being seen by her and making a move. Similarly, if you're unhappy with your job, you can manipulate your time to study for a new profession.
In essence, I see it as manipulating our daily tasks and choices.

The idea of the 'dread game' with another human being, whether it's wife or cousin, is similar.
It involves manipulating events to achieve a desired outcome.
So if I see my wife reading all the time, and having no sex, instead of telling her "you should stop reading" "you're absent", etc etc, I could bring her a spicy romance novel and that would change the outcome.
This is just an example.

Another way of thinking about this:

As a man, it's vital to develop and maintain Sang Froid

If you act like this

Neither men nor women will respect you, and the latter sure as hell won't find you desirable


"Never Let 'Em See You Sweat" IS a trait that doesn't come naturally to most fellas, and one which we do have to develop within ourselves, this is true. We just currently live in an era where doing so is considered "fake", while having a f-cking meltdown the minute anything we find disagreeable occurs, is mistaken for "being more real"

 

[BaronOfHair]

Dread game.

Or, as The Man(Dread, that is)himself calls it: Hide The Mamba in The Kitty

https://www.youporn.com/watch/16981148/dredd-gives-freshman-sara-a-****ing-she-will-never-forget/