"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The more average girls go cold

dillin

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I've really been improving myself for the past year or so and I now I have come to the point where I feel totally comfortable in situations with girls and I just have a good feeling about myself. I have no problems meeting women, it just happens naturally really. I don't really go out thinking "omg I need a girlfriend I gotta talk to this girl she is the only one!" and once I lost that thinking everything just happens without me trying but theres one thing I have been wondering about.

Lately when I go out somewhere it seems like the girls in the 7 and under range in looks go TOTALLY cold on me, rarely even make eye contact with me for any amount of time but when I'm out somewhere and theres a really good looing girl things just happen like it's nothing, I can be at a party and it just "happens" with her. The HB8+ girls are always totally cool and open with me, much more relaxed and very open to my advances.

I was just wondering if any of you have dealt with this because it's not like I'm only attracted the the HB8+ girls, I don't mind the average looking ones at all they just go cold when I'm out anywhere, it's like I don't even exist.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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JJMcLure

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Yeah. They are intimidated, they think you're out of their league.

Techniques like neg hits, massive C+F or just having your game/mack on at 95% blows them away and they turn to quivering lumps of jello. You can easily overqualify yourself with these girls.

Like a rabbit in the headlights.

You need to take the lead - approach them, put them at ease. Give them permission to enter your world.
 

smooth666

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JJMcLure is right: you are already beyond them,you initmidate them.
It happens to me often. Do not hesitate to hit on them anyway.They often will open up eventually ;)
 

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What do you guys think about changing from more "casual" regular clothes to the more expensive big name designer clothes? Something I noticed is the more regular good looking girls tend to ignore me alot more since I changed clothing aswell compared to before. Do you think clothing can really affect what girls you get?

BTW I agree with what you guys said above.
 

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Just about anything you do differently should change what kind of girl finds you appealing... Some girls love a guy with a hat others don't.. etc I don't see why that wouldnt apply to a certain style of clothes.. However if you think woman aren't as appealed to your current style maybe you should ask yourself if what your wearing is really "you" or if its something you picked out from a fashion mag... The clothes don't always make the man espically if the air your projecting isn't the "real" you
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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