“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The mistake of being driven by envy

Plinco

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There's a fine line between learning from other people's successes and failures and judging yourself by other people's standards.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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There's a fine line between learning from other people's successes and failures and judging yourself by other people's standards.
For me it is not envy or hate in itself, but the ability to say and observe that "I am not up to their level".
So what good can I take and integrate into myself? Is this envy?
 

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For me it is not envy or hate in itself, but the ability to say and observe that "I am not up to their level".
So what good can I take and integrate into myself? Is this envy?
As an observation, you learn from it. You can study people's behavior and ask yourself questions about what is driving each person, watch for details to how they act, etc.
 
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