"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The "Minimalist Approach" to approaching women

Poon King

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Just wondering if any other men have tried this for their cold approaching. When I used to do a lot of cold approaching.. this was my method because I'm generally not a talker. I don't have the "gift of gab" for small talk and never did. I'm either being frank or I'm not talking.

This was a challenge when I decided to start cold approaches because I was never on board with DHV stories and other types of PUA azz kissing / auditioning for women.

My approach was to walk up to a girl, tell her she is cute, ask her maybe 2 or 3 questions.. then close. This would usually take about a minute or two. No long conversations. And it worked on many women too. And I got dates/lays.

I'm thinking of getting back into it (which is one reason I joined this forum) and maybe taking it even more extreme to where I just approach, give a compliment and ask for a date right away. But I was wondering if any other guys here have tried anything like this.

Btw.. I've found women respond to "cute/pretty" better than any other compliment for cold approaches.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RangerMIke

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Well. When you first meet a women, what you actually say is not as important as your body language and how you look. So not saying a whole lot doesn't really matter. If you approach with confidence, then not saying a whole lot and getting a number works.
 

Starwolf

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This looks like something i can try.. I have not tried cold approaches yet mostly because of fear of not having stuff to talk about.

Would you recommend this for a cold approach newbie?
can you give an exact real life example of how you would approach?

for example
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her:
you:
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Trunks

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This is how I started with cold approaches on hot girls. It usually gave me really positive reactions/stunned looks. While it obviously made an impression, they always wanted to get me talking and I could not pull with only minimal conversation. You have to give just enough to spark intrigue, balls by themselves are not enough. YMMV if you're very physically attractive, I would assume.
 
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