"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Metro look

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HI there...

These days the ladies are attracted more to the m,etro Look and hang around with guys who are feminine and very submissive so that the ladies can rule over them. I have a swimmer's built with strong shoulders and dress up in a very manly fashion and I do the DJ suave things and all but I cant wear body tight T-shirt and have thin hanger like shoulder and sport the Metro Look!

Are the ladies bored with the Manly presence? why they are running after the feminine and backbone less men who have suddenly cropped up all over the city wearing Gay fashion brands and looking Metro!!

Will the DJ skills work on those ladies too who are attracted to the Metro people?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Please don't tell me that you want to look prissy just to make byatches happy?

Real men never go out of style.
 
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It's not about the looks, but rather the attitude. These guys are chasing a trend. It wouldn't matter what they wear, but it's so wide spread now that you're fooled into thinking that it's their clothes doing the work for them.
 
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I think you're exaggerating a bit. I've noticed this trend, too, but I don't sport the metro-look either and probably have a rather manly presence (being 6'3-6'4 and rather muscular) and obviously there's still a 'market' for me...actually I have the impression, that most girls still do like the manly look...and most girls I know actually think the (exaggerated) metro look looks gay (and by that I mean your everyday college girls), though most don't seem to dislike a light metro look ;-) I think that's mostly due to girls wanting to see some flesh too, though ;-)

Anyways, I highly doubt there are many girls who would want me to dress more 'metro' (I wear like loose/(slight) baggy pants and polo shirts, stuff like that...without going for pink colors or changing my hair style every month like David B. though)
 
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I think eccentric put it pretty well...I mean I'm pretty good friends with 2 girls, I have a sister and know a few of her friends pretty well..i've dated girls before... and I know when I was younger (in my teens) and would wear mad baggy stuff my sister and her best friend would try to get me to wear clothes that are a little more 'body-fit' and it was obvious they didn't like the way I'd dress..lol... but nowadays, I do still wear lose to baggy pants (not real baggy) and put on shirts that have some class and style..like polo shirts (in NORMAL colors!!lol) or body fit v-shirts (I don't mean really tight..just a bit more body fit if u get what i mean)....and all of them seem to like the way I dress..and like I said a lot of times I actually do hear (your average college) girls comment on the (exaggerated) metro look (way too tight clothes, pink shirts, etc.) in a negative way...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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metro is out

according to Cosmo Radio, the manly look is back in and the metro look is OUT.....
 
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