"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Metro look

ANIRBAN

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HI there...

These days the ladies are attracted more to the m,etro Look and hang around with guys who are feminine and very submissive so that the ladies can rule over them. I have a swimmer's built with strong shoulders and dress up in a very manly fashion and I do the DJ suave things and all but I cant wear body tight T-shirt and have thin hanger like shoulder and sport the Metro Look!

Are the ladies bored with the Manly presence? why they are running after the feminine and backbone less men who have suddenly cropped up all over the city wearing Gay fashion brands and looking Metro!!

Will the DJ skills work on those ladies too who are attracted to the Metro people?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SELF-MASTERY

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Please don't tell me that you want to look prissy just to make byatches happy?

Real men never go out of style.
 

Eccentric

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It's not about the looks, but rather the attitude. These guys are chasing a trend. It wouldn't matter what they wear, but it's so wide spread now that you're fooled into thinking that it's their clothes doing the work for them.
 

madgame

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I think you're exaggerating a bit. I've noticed this trend, too, but I don't sport the metro-look either and probably have a rather manly presence (being 6'3-6'4 and rather muscular) and obviously there's still a 'market' for me...actually I have the impression, that most girls still do like the manly look...and most girls I know actually think the (exaggerated) metro look looks gay (and by that I mean your everyday college girls), though most don't seem to dislike a light metro look ;-) I think that's mostly due to girls wanting to see some flesh too, though ;-)

Anyways, I highly doubt there are many girls who would want me to dress more 'metro' (I wear like loose/(slight) baggy pants and polo shirts, stuff like that...without going for pink colors or changing my hair style every month like David B. though)
 

madgame

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I think eccentric put it pretty well...I mean I'm pretty good friends with 2 girls, I have a sister and know a few of her friends pretty well..i've dated girls before... and I know when I was younger (in my teens) and would wear mad baggy stuff my sister and her best friend would try to get me to wear clothes that are a little more 'body-fit' and it was obvious they didn't like the way I'd dress..lol... but nowadays, I do still wear lose to baggy pants (not real baggy) and put on shirts that have some class and style..like polo shirts (in NORMAL colors!!lol) or body fit v-shirts (I don't mean really tight..just a bit more body fit if u get what i mean)....and all of them seem to like the way I dress..and like I said a lot of times I actually do hear (your average college) girls comment on the (exaggerated) metro look (way too tight clothes, pink shirts, etc.) in a negative way...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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gameplace123

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metro is out

according to Cosmo Radio, the manly look is back in and the metro look is OUT.....
 
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