"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MrBond_Age

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I am writing my own simple dating guide right now and will host it on my server as an html file. I would like sosuave.com to support me by sticking a post made for people to submit guides or tricks of their own. If its good I add it to the website if not I dismiss it.

I want to make it easier for newcomers to have the most accurate and easy to understand basis on dating and I feel the DJ "bible" just doesn`t do the job.

I explain myself: Many articles written in the bible are contradicting one another or are way too phylosophical(SP?) to be of need for someone looking for real clues. This poses the current problem we face on the boards: "Afc giving advice to afc". The problem comes from this simple fact: almost noone has simple rules for the mass to follow and thus the commotion on the boards are created.

Post such as :" Do women go out only with people they are attracted to" could be easely avoided. Alas, since we have no rules set some people are inclined to say yes and others say no and the original poster is left clueless as to who gives the better or most accurate answer.

I beleive that as a community, we shoudnt just stock posts on the bible but rather compile the knowledge into a single format wich wont contradict itself while keeping it simple and light to read.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Becoming a Don Juan is not simple and light, it is complicated and perplex. Certain rules apply is some situations, but not in other.

Simplifying it would belittle the actual work required. Its complex for a reason.
 

MrBond_Age

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People are making it complex while the basics and fundamentals are very simple.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by MrBond_Age
People are making it complex while the basics and fundamentals are very simple.
What are they then, you write up something that is "basic" and We'll think about it.

I don't believe anything I've learned was basic, or everyone would know it.
 

MrBond_Age

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Ill give an easy example:

The digits:

-How to ask for the digits
-Why you should not ask for it as a question
-Why asking for email address sets you up for failure
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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diablo

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
oh gawd!!!! another one. How-bout you and Capri hook up and do something constructive like sarge on some women instead.
This would be constructive.
 
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MrBond_Age

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
oh gawd!!!! another one. How-bout you and Capri hook up and do something constructive like sarge on some women instead.
Bling bling?
 

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I could and would support this if I felt you knew a thing or two about getting women. Being straight with you, I don't think you are qualified to give advice. I highly doubt you have real experience and therefore aren't in a position to oversee and decide what is good or bad advice. By making your site new guys will assume you are an authority on the subject which is misleading and will likely hinder them in their progress. It would be to the detriment of the community to associate/promote your product, free or not.

No offence meant, man.
 

MrBond_Age

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Originally posted by Soma
I could and would support this if I felt you knew a thing or two about getting women. Being straight with you, I don't think you are qualified to give advice. I highly doubt you have real experience and therefore aren't in a position to oversee and decide what is good or bad advice. By making your site new guys will assume you are an authority on the subject which is misleading and will likely hinder them in their progress. It would be to the detriment of the community to associate/promote your product, free or not.

No offence meant, man.
Back from college.

I understand many naysayers such as yourself to be skeptical, especially when someone like PS claims the same things I do. The main difference is that I do other stuff other than dating because that would be retarded and impossible.

What do I do? I go to college and I have a part-time job at night, depending on wether or not they need someone and I work each weekends (20 hours) as a CNC operator.

I often have a new date per month or maybe each 3 months depending on my schedule.Tonight I am going to install a smoke system in a club and will prolly hookup with another girl. Maybe not. I do not make it my goal as much as I did when I first began.

Well wathever. Wether people beleive in what I write or not, its always better than "shooting energy balls"(Im not kidding).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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THIS SITE IS FOR MOSTLY MEN YOU KNOW.
 
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