"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MrBond_Age

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I am writing my own simple dating guide right now and will host it on my server as an html file. I would like sosuave.com to support me by sticking a post made for people to submit guides or tricks of their own. If its good I add it to the website if not I dismiss it.

I want to make it easier for newcomers to have the most accurate and easy to understand basis on dating and I feel the DJ "bible" just doesn`t do the job.

I explain myself: Many articles written in the bible are contradicting one another or are way too phylosophical(SP?) to be of need for someone looking for real clues. This poses the current problem we face on the boards: "Afc giving advice to afc". The problem comes from this simple fact: almost noone has simple rules for the mass to follow and thus the commotion on the boards are created.

Post such as :" Do women go out only with people they are attracted to" could be easely avoided. Alas, since we have no rules set some people are inclined to say yes and others say no and the original poster is left clueless as to who gives the better or most accurate answer.

I beleive that as a community, we shoudnt just stock posts on the bible but rather compile the knowledge into a single format wich wont contradict itself while keeping it simple and light to read.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vincent

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Becoming a Don Juan is not simple and light, it is complicated and perplex. Certain rules apply is some situations, but not in other.

Simplifying it would belittle the actual work required. Its complex for a reason.
 

MrBond_Age

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People are making it complex while the basics and fundamentals are very simple.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by MrBond_Age
People are making it complex while the basics and fundamentals are very simple.
What are they then, you write up something that is "basic" and We'll think about it.

I don't believe anything I've learned was basic, or everyone would know it.
 

MrBond_Age

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Ill give an easy example:

The digits:

-How to ask for the digits
-Why you should not ask for it as a question
-Why asking for email address sets you up for failure
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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diablo

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
oh gawd!!!! another one. How-bout you and Capri hook up and do something constructive like sarge on some women instead.
This would be constructive.
 
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MrBond_Age

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
oh gawd!!!! another one. How-bout you and Capri hook up and do something constructive like sarge on some women instead.
Bling bling?
 

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I could and would support this if I felt you knew a thing or two about getting women. Being straight with you, I don't think you are qualified to give advice. I highly doubt you have real experience and therefore aren't in a position to oversee and decide what is good or bad advice. By making your site new guys will assume you are an authority on the subject which is misleading and will likely hinder them in their progress. It would be to the detriment of the community to associate/promote your product, free or not.

No offence meant, man.
 

MrBond_Age

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Originally posted by Soma
I could and would support this if I felt you knew a thing or two about getting women. Being straight with you, I don't think you are qualified to give advice. I highly doubt you have real experience and therefore aren't in a position to oversee and decide what is good or bad advice. By making your site new guys will assume you are an authority on the subject which is misleading and will likely hinder them in their progress. It would be to the detriment of the community to associate/promote your product, free or not.

No offence meant, man.
Back from college.

I understand many naysayers such as yourself to be skeptical, especially when someone like PS claims the same things I do. The main difference is that I do other stuff other than dating because that would be retarded and impossible.

What do I do? I go to college and I have a part-time job at night, depending on wether or not they need someone and I work each weekends (20 hours) as a CNC operator.

I often have a new date per month or maybe each 3 months depending on my schedule.Tonight I am going to install a smoke system in a club and will prolly hookup with another girl. Maybe not. I do not make it my goal as much as I did when I first began.

Well wathever. Wether people beleive in what I write or not, its always better than "shooting energy balls"(Im not kidding).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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THIS SITE IS FOR MOSTLY MEN YOU KNOW.
 
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