"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the media IS NOT trying to make you an AFC!!

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The media is not attempting to make you an AFC....it is your own laziness that is making you an AFC

Yes tons of media promote AFC...I'm sure you know of plenty.

But, if you search, and don't accept Popular Media, you discover many forms of media promoting what real men are

examples: Movies: porn, Tao of Steve, Alfie,...etc
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The media is influenced by feminism and as a result today’s young men are influenced by it.
 

00Kevin

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exactly, when was the last time you saw Benny Hill on tv or even a show like it.
 

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Here's an idea....don't watch it! If it's AFC...don't watch it!

Don't sit through it...then later say...wow...so much AFC in the media.

I can expose myself to so much media that promotes what men are....

even during those "popular" times such as 5, 8, or whenever

Just don't accept what is plopped in front of you...there is just as much non AFC media as there is AFC media.

It's just not neatly gift wrapped for you.
 

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TheNonPendant - alot of guys don't realise what they are watching. Alot of men have lived in their slumber their entire life, and until they come to a site like this, don't even think there is anything wrong with them - so in short - you can't fix something if you don't even know well enough that there is a problem.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My television broke like 2 months ago.

Great thing!

I no longer need to watch that ****.
The only things I miss was watching Sopranos and Oz (what a great serial!)
If there's some important news I need to know I just look them up on the net.

Now I just read dj stuff, eat, sh!t and bulk.
And feeling damn great!

And porn doesn't do any good to anyone except who are making it and getting money from it.
When you think about it, porn is AFC.
You aer watching some screen and your brain thinks it's real.

If you want to get MAD game with chicks...
1) Start eating like crazy! Count it up! Follow DIESEL's guide
2) Exercise HARD
3) Stop watching porn. You can watch it, but DO NOT masturbate
4) Lose the fears you got. If somebody don't like you (incloding the hottest girl you know) you shouldn't give a SH!T!

If you can do that, nothing will stop you.
 

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porn, Tao of Steve, Alfie?

I don't see any of these as examples of "real men."

Although the guy in Tao of Steve was likeable, he wasn't a man. He was full grown, lived with a bunch of other dudes and only had a part time job. That doesn't sound like a man to me.

This Alfie movie looks like this guy's just a player. If you're lying to 4 women telling them you're in love with them, I don't consider you much of a man either.

Porn? You think those guys are real men? The only thing we know about them is that they have sex with women. Women who get paid to have sex with them. It takes a little more than that in MY book to get respect.
 
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