DonJuanabe
Master Don Juan
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My understanding is that use of ellipses (...) is to imply suggestion, a positive affirmation of sorts. For example, a girl replies "Maybe we should hang out some time..." meaning she is open to dating you or considering it.
A friend of mine was LJBFed by a girl he had been seeing for a few weeks. He doesn't label it dating because they didn't have sex. Weird thing is that, according to him, she was obviously willing to f*** on their second date but he didn't bite because he wanted to show control and wait until the third date, at which time she got flaky and wouldn't f*** and a week later they were done after he got tired of the BS about developing a strong friendship first. Two weeks later when he called to invite her to something she accepted and then gave him the LJBF line and told him she was never attracted to him in the first place and was only trying to force herself to feel attraction and wasn't going to do that anymore. He responded by going with the flow, making light of the situation, and continuing on like nothing had happened, saying the invitation was still hers since he had already asked her to go and she accepted and switched to completely different topics like you would when shooting the sh*t with your friends. Apparently, at least according to him, he came across as though he didn't care whatsoever and acted like they had been best friends for years despite knowing each other only a month. She said okay but if he felt like asking someone else that would be fine. After going no contact for a week he texted her some details about the itinerary and requested some information he needed to finalize their attendance. She provided the information and replied that she would like to do one of the activities at the event, ending that sentence (and text) with "..."
Why end with "..." unless she is hinting that she is reconsidering her move to LJBF him?
A friend of mine was LJBFed by a girl he had been seeing for a few weeks. He doesn't label it dating because they didn't have sex. Weird thing is that, according to him, she was obviously willing to f*** on their second date but he didn't bite because he wanted to show control and wait until the third date, at which time she got flaky and wouldn't f*** and a week later they were done after he got tired of the BS about developing a strong friendship first. Two weeks later when he called to invite her to something she accepted and then gave him the LJBF line and told him she was never attracted to him in the first place and was only trying to force herself to feel attraction and wasn't going to do that anymore. He responded by going with the flow, making light of the situation, and continuing on like nothing had happened, saying the invitation was still hers since he had already asked her to go and she accepted and switched to completely different topics like you would when shooting the sh*t with your friends. Apparently, at least according to him, he came across as though he didn't care whatsoever and acted like they had been best friends for years despite knowing each other only a month. She said okay but if he felt like asking someone else that would be fine. After going no contact for a week he texted her some details about the itinerary and requested some information he needed to finalize their attendance. She provided the information and replied that she would like to do one of the activities at the event, ending that sentence (and text) with "..."
Why end with "..." unless she is hinting that she is reconsidering her move to LJBF him?
