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I used to work with this chick a while back during my AFC days. She was initially attracted to me when we first met because she called me a spunk and was always following me around and touching me. Needless to say I screwed it up with my AFC ways...

So I received this message out of the blue with no contact for some months:

"hey buddy, how are you?"

That buddy thing sounds bad, but I have referred to her as a buddy in previous text messages, don't know if that could have anything to do with it. . What do you guys think?
 

shark

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it means nothing, your over analyzing this.
 

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Yep means nothing. The text message alone could mean nothing, a lot of people text with generic messages like that whenever they are board ie myself as well as a lot of girls I know.
 

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yeah, you're absolutely right man. I feel kinda stupid for even posting such a ridicolous question, unfortunately I can't even delete the thread
 

Lost In Translation

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"hey buddy, how are you?"

= i am bored and i have sent this to 20 AFC's i know and i need a few to reply to boost my ego so i still think i am God's gift to man


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 

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Originally posted by AcknowledgeDaRep
yeah, you're absolutely right man. I feel kinda stupid for even posting such a ridicolous question, unfortunately I can't even delete the thread
No worries I call my social robot friends all the time to ask them stuff, and they tell me I'm overanalyzing it a lot of the time.
 

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Well I ended up msging her back with some C&F and now she wants to "get together". The problem is that she's a 3rd year psychology student, so as good as my game is now, she might be able to see right through it.
 

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Originally posted by AcknowledgeDaRep
Well I ended up msging her back with some C&F and now she wants to "get together". The problem is that she's a 3rd year psychology student, so as good as my game is now, she might be able to see right through it.
lol at the psychology... unless you are serious then I feel sorry for you
 

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Originally posted by AcknowledgeDaRep
Well I ended up msging her back with some C&F and now she wants to "get together". The problem is that she's a 3rd year psychology student, so as good as my game is now, she might be able to see right through it.
She's a 3rd year psychology student.

Read this as: "She has no clue what to do in life and can't take the heat in literature."

Don't be put off by a psych student. Just make fun of her all the time with comments like...

You: "You know, I hear psyche students do it deeper."
Her: "Ew! You have a dirty mind."
You: "What? Huh? Oh... no EWWW! I meant intellectualize. What were YOU thinking? You are the sicko. That sounds to me like a bit of projection."
Her: "What?"
You: "Yeah, you're projecting. It happens to insecure women sometimes. The put their internal feelings on others. If they are sexually frustrated, they see everyone else as frustrated. It is a coping mechanism."
Her: "I am NOT frustrated."
You: "You know, the first step to getting better is admitting you have a problem." *grin*
Her: "I do NOT have a problem!"
You: "'da Nile ain't just a river in Egypt, you know."

-etc.-
 

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Another option

You could always take a shot at flipping the angle and accusing her of playing head games with you - games that she learned from her psychology training.

I went to a school with the biggest psychology department in the country and this misdirect worked for me a few times. Women spend so long trying to convince you that they aren't playing you that it puts them off their guard and you get a freer run.
 

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I'd give her a pet name. Hey my little psychology dork.....

The girl im on a date with later is like in debate club or some sh!t like that so I constantly bust on her.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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