"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not tommorow. Everyday, for the rest of my life.
 
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wonderful post! im going to be THE MAN tomorrow! and the next day, and the next, and everyday after that!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Great post! This is very motivational. Interestingly, pretty much what I did with this was act happy and not try to think negativity. I may not have talked to that HB 9 or "been more social to others", but I apparently acted more happy with life that a couple of my friends noticed without me saying anything.

Perhaps one of the big secrets of being a DJ is the mood no matter the situation you are in you create for yourself. If most to everything is positive, your life experiences will be positive.
 
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Very good post, don't know how I haven't seen this one before now 10 out of 10. It's a real shame that a lot of these people who's posts I admire and have changed my outlook on life aren't around here these days. :cry: ... but their glorious work will always live on :up:

edit: I know some are still round but I meant they have moved on past high school now :)
 
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I was wondering where BBB went, and he comes back with pure GOLD! Do whatever it is you like to do, especially if you are in HS and give 2 fu**s less what they say. If you need help in a class, get it, anyone scoffs at you about it then laugh at them when they fail the class. You're the MAN, complete with testosterone and balls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BUMP! Don't let this wonderful thread get buried.
 
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The Man ... really cool, thanks for this post, I did it once and it did work
Big Smile is the key of social :p:D
 
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Dam man this is so inspriring. Literrally I was dam near smiling hard towards the end, because it can happen, and will happen.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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damn, I just had a terrible weekend...

this is probably the fourth time ive read this post and its more inspiring than ever.

tomorrow, there is going to be a change. I feel like I have an amazing week coming up. And you know what? After that, im going to have an amazing LIFE.
 
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no way this is not bumped!!!!!!!!! bump!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Im confused...How do you do this without appearin try hard?
 
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I've read many posts but never decided to post something.. but today that I read this I changed my mind... this is the best sh$t ever... I feel that motivation with this damn post... its awesome.. I will be the Man for now on... not just tomorrow but everyday..
I was feeling kinda down tonight.. but now I feel much better just by reading this post.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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