"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Loveshack/SoSuave Discussion [Merged Threads]

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Rata Blanca

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DJDamage said:
I say let them be where they are. If they want more info they will find sosuave by themselves just like hundred of thousands of others.

We are no different then people in LS. Who are we to shutter their dreams?! most people don't want the truth and are not ready for the truth until they face themselves and go and find it (and most don't). What is the truth anyway?! The truth for most people is their own perception of reality.

If someone wants to build their own prison and call it paradise, I am not going to stop him. Even prisoners in prison do whatever they can to make sure that the walls which they are confined in won't be a place that feels like hell.

What we are trying to do is no different then past members of sosuave who used the same tricks to lure members from this site to their so called "better reality" (we know who they are) and then laugh about it on their own site.
Agreed! You can't help someone, who doesn't want to be helped. These people need a "turning point" where they hit low in their lifes, just like we did, until we found sosuave.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well who's to say that they've HEAR OUR ADVICE already and want to stay in the matrix? Maybe they've NEVER heard our advice and some will be very receptive to it.


Anyways, I posted in the second chances forum as Uchiha Sasuke:

http://ww.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1589459#post1589459

I wish I were a better writer. I just don't like writing long post. :cry:
 
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Guys, if you're gonna play, DO NOT link to the threads on that forum. Webmasters have a thing called web statistics tool which show referers to their sites. If the LS webmaster sees a whole lot of threads on that forum being linked to by SS, well, your game's up. :)
 

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"Well who's to say that they've HEAR OUR ADVICE already and want to stay in the matrix? Maybe they've NEVER heard our advice and some will be very receptive to it."

Exactly.

Until a poster named New Order posted a link to this place on another forum I was a part of I never knew alternative thoughts to the societal feminist viewpoint on life and relationships existed.

To me that garbage was normal and how you are supposed to think and live.

So I think that what many of the posters here are doing is a good thing if only for the great possibility it may draw some people that were like me when I originally got the link to this place and that is to say people that are open to and even in search of an alternative viewpoint.

Those are the ones I believe have the greatest chance at changing quickly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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c'mon guys, think...think...

you are posting your new LS usernames right here in public.

lol
 

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I'm in! I already have an account there, and I've used it well so far. The mods don't like me too much though. They keep sending me warnings about my language.

I have a few suggestions which have prevented me from being banned:

1) DO NOT use PUA terminology. That means don't use AFC, DJ, HB, IOI, Kino, etc etc. You can use terms such as LTR, LDR, SM, BF and GF.

2) DO NOT link to sosuave, nor use the same alias you use here. LS has a large population of women, and they don't like PUAs very much.

3) Watch your language as much as possible. Fvck, Cvnt, Cl1t, A55hole, Bytch are words they don't like very much.

4) DO NOT insult other members. It's easy to trample on an AFC or a woman with namecalling, but that will ultimately get you banned. Trample them with real-life situations, experience, intelligence, and good ol' facts.

Let me know when we launch!
 

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I got a response to my thread and someone agrees with me! yay. Got some pretty decent views too.

The post TheMatrix made: Wow. Over 20 pages.

Rogue, Woggle and a few others share our sentiments I see. Wonder if we should PM them this site?

Iqqi...It would be really interesting to see what you'd have to say on that site. I'm surprised you don't have an account there already.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ThunderMaverick said:
I got a response to my thread agree with me! yay. Got some pretty decent views too.

The post TheMatrix made: Wow. Over 20 pages.

Rogue, Woogle and a few others share our sentiments I see. Wonder if we should PM them this site?

Iqqi...It would be really interesting to see what you'd have to say on that site. I'm surprised you don't have an account there already.
If you think Rogue and Woogle and others aren't also sosuave members, there is a chance you are deluded. I bet a few sosuavers lead double forum lives.

As far as me posting over there, the main difference would be that I wouldn't be flamed every time I said something because there are tons of more women over there, so they aren't as "threatening". Other than that, my advice would echo much of your guyses, without the "wow iqqi said something smart" follow ups. Haha. I said Guyses. Is there a correct way to spell that?

Oh, I am not over there because I don't have love shacky issues. I like it here. I like MEN.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Unplugging chumps from the Matrix is dirty work.
The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it.
Albert Einstein

He who does not punish evil, commands it to be done.
Leonardo Da Vinci
 

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I haven't heard of this site before ss. Is it a big famous site? (is this a big famous site, lol). I guess it's the anti-ss.

I checked out the thread though a little. Way too much. It would be easier if the posters were listed as male and female.

What the hell is a sapiosexual.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KarmaSutra said:
I'll be getting a banning for sure for this:

Whoops, I did it again!

Way to keep up the good fight! I see you and Ketostix are doing a good job defending the male species. We need it. Cheers! :up:
 

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I couldn't register as Nighthawk (maybe I trolled it before and forgot) so I am The Collector (again, turns out I'd already registered and trolled it). I also have a new account under the name Towelie. Don't reckon I'll last long, I'm taking no prisoners.
 

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We should not concentrate on only one section of that fourm. That may be suspitious to the mods over there. I'm thinking of putting up some posts made by Pook & Gunwitch in there. That will really give them something to think about. :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
 

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I'm sorry, but what do you hope to achieve here?

For the record, I agree, the place is full of sypms, and chumps.

These beliefs are so ingrained, and tied to these peoples ego's that I highly doubt you'll "change" anyone. Sheep don't migrate.

And look at yourselves, grown men planning "assualts" on another online forum. It's like the sharks Vs. The Jets (perhaps less gay...) Have you honestly nothing more productive to do with your time?

I'm all for helping others, but 1) They don't want it and 2) We've got enough guys that need help here.
 

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That place is really annoying. I love how every time a woman talks about her problems, she is supported by everyone in the mob (guys included) and never guilty of anything. Poor, poor her. However when a guy makes a thread where he is even remotely weepy people are so prone to humiliate him, find things he did wrong, and to paint it as if everything was his fault.

Some of the girls over there are REALLY annoying dense *****es. I'm never reading that site again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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