So an ex is around, I still chat her up.
I know, Stupid Me, I know, don't preach me on the obvious, however, something she told me bears repeating and I'm wondering if you guys have the same take I do...
She's been seeing some guy the past 3 months. She "loves" him more than anyone she's known before. She frequently wonders why she has fallen this hard for him, she wonders if he is capable of "spells"...whatever, I think that is BS. Bottom line is, she is smitten badly.
Thing is, the dude lives hundreds of miles away and they don't get to see each other that much. Bear in mind, this girl is 30 years old, she is vibrant and healthy. She has alluded to her increased horniness and need for physical intimacy.
One day she told me this guy is not the best lover she has had, that there have been others guys who were better (myself included, though she never told me this, but I know
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Maybe this is superficial of me, but how does a 30-year-old woman fall in love with a man who is obviously not bringing her memorable moments in the bedroom and who hasn't left her with an indelible impression of his uniqueness in her mind?
I would guess her interest level is 60-70% but she goes out of her way to talk to this guy and spend as much time as they can even if they aren't necessarily spending their rare moments alone knocking boots.
Do you guys this is normal behavior for a young woman?
I know, Stupid Me, I know, don't preach me on the obvious, however, something she told me bears repeating and I'm wondering if you guys have the same take I do...
She's been seeing some guy the past 3 months. She "loves" him more than anyone she's known before. She frequently wonders why she has fallen this hard for him, she wonders if he is capable of "spells"...whatever, I think that is BS. Bottom line is, she is smitten badly.
Thing is, the dude lives hundreds of miles away and they don't get to see each other that much. Bear in mind, this girl is 30 years old, she is vibrant and healthy. She has alluded to her increased horniness and need for physical intimacy.
One day she told me this guy is not the best lover she has had, that there have been others guys who were better (myself included, though she never told me this, but I know
)Maybe this is superficial of me, but how does a 30-year-old woman fall in love with a man who is obviously not bringing her memorable moments in the bedroom and who hasn't left her with an indelible impression of his uniqueness in her mind?
I would guess her interest level is 60-70% but she goes out of her way to talk to this guy and spend as much time as they can even if they aren't necessarily spending their rare moments alone knocking boots.
Do you guys this is normal behavior for a young woman?