"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The lost generation in a nutshell

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I have referred to the millenials and their younger brethren as the lost generation, and this guy has done nothing to change my mind...basically he is the poster child for everything wrong with them...

https://www.yahoo.com/news/michael-rotondo-talks-returning-parents-194532165.html

Dude is 30 years old with no job and parents sued to get him out of their house and he doesn't want to leave.

Main talking points:
  • Entitled to everything
  • No work ethic to speak of
  • No ambition or drive to make anything of themselves
  • Always looking for free handouts
  • Mentally fragile
  • Low testosterone
  • Want to take the feminine role in relationships
  • Always look to blame someone or something for their problems instead or holding themselves accountable---its never their fault
I shudder to think how THEIR kids will grow up...maybe they'll resent them for being like that and be determined they will be different...

On the positive side its the best job security imaginable for guys like me in their 40s who were raised to always work hard and be the best at whatever they do...I am capable of doing the work of 3 of these people simply because I actually go to work to work instead of going to work to have social hour at the Ritz Carlton and view it as an interruption to their Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook and whatever else is the social media du jour...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can't they just kick him out? In Japan, there is a special word for this.... single men there started doing this decades ago. They just sit in their rooms on the computer. No job, no girlfriend, no life..... miserable. Are we going 'Japanese'?
 

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Can't they just kick him out? In Japan, there is a special word for this.... single men there started doing this decades ago. They just sit in their rooms on the computer. No job, no girlfriend, no life..... miserable. Are we going 'Japanese'?
In the US its weird...once you establish residence somewhere for a period of time it becomes a much harder process...you basically have to evict them and get the courts/legal processes involved
 

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Yeah, I saw that on the news the other day. That guy is a lazy ass wank.

Society would ultimately crumble if it were filled with men like this. We seemingly have more men going to university to get degrees in some desk job bull**** and less men learning trades and skills.

I was watching one of my favourite YouTube channels (AvE) and he said he would rather hire some kid who was raised on a farm over some fvcking university or college graduate. We have too many fvcking wimps for men these days.

Now that I live out in the country, it's become more clear that many of today's men wouldn't be able to live where I do. My jeep broke down at the gas station, so I went to buy the replacement part and changed it right there in the gravel parking lot. What on earth would some pansy as man do if his car broke down in the middle of nowhere?
 
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I shudder to think how THEIR kids will grow up...
They probably won't have kids.

But if they do, at some point reality will catch up. People can't survive that way. The world is too hard for that to work. If someone sits around and plays video games their whole life, they will eventually starve to death.

Unless they introduce a universal basic income.

But my younger brother is a millennial. He had a baby with some other millennial girl. They gave it up for adoption and were back playing Pokemon in no time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I read about this neckbeard fvck on the way to work yesterday. Scum.
 

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This seems to becoming the norm. You wouldn't believe how many millennials are STILL living with their parents in their 20's and 30's. Three women I "dated' in the last few months all lived with their parents.

When did people get so lazy?
 

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I have referred to the millenials and their younger brethren as the lost generation, and this guy has done nothing to change my mind...basically he is the poster child for everything wrong with them...

https://www.yahoo.com/news/michael-rotondo-talks-returning-parents-194532165.html

Dude is 30 years old with no job and parents sued to get him out of their house and he doesn't want to leave.

Main talking points:
  • Entitled to everything
  • No work ethic to speak of
  • No ambition or drive to make anything of themselves
  • Always looking for free handouts
  • Mentally fragile
  • Low testosterone
  • Want to take the feminine role in relationships
  • Always look to blame someone or something for their problems instead or holding themselves accountable---its never their fault
I shudder to think how THEIR kids will grow up...maybe they'll resent them for being like that and be determined they will be different...
OK they are entitled. Let’s go past it and find the reason and solve the issue.

Who do you blame? Hollywood? Kardashians? Movies where the man gets entitled sex from the hot young woman?

What’s the answer? Military school? Sports? Growing up with a sister?
 

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I blame technology and how comfy life is for young people. They no longer have to struggle for food or shelter. Everything is given to them. When I was younger than him, much younger, I had to hustle and move to make money to eat. People do not have that mindset. They do not have to worry about where their next meal is coming from. Security. Protection. Clothes. Shelter.

Life, for many people, these days is too easy. No struggle and not a care in the world. This is worse than the boomerang generation. He never fvckin left. What's worse is he even has a child. It just amazes me people do not plan for the future.
 

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I hear you. Two years ago had a 27 year old niece get married. All of the wedding party were dressed as characters from a medieval game both he and her were still into. All I could do to keep from laughing. Pure fantasy.
To this date both he and her are still living at her dads house. Supposedly saving for a house, but they don’t yet make enough $$ because of a lack of education and skills. Thank god they aren’t baby making yet. Simply amazing.…
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Isn't this normal in Europe? My friend from Europe told me a lot of men live with their families in to their mid 30s, but they work and stuff......the family chooses to just live together
 

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Isn't this normal in Europe? My friend from Europe told me a lot of men live with their families in to their mid 30s, but they work and stuff......the family chooses to just live together
Maybe but it certainly is not normal in the US
 

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Lol blame the parents in this case; they created his behaviours l. But yes, the dudes a wimp and many millennials are aswell
 

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The French (France) Made a Comedy movie about this around 2001. The movie is "Tanguy"

Hilarious movie, except the "millennial" was a succesful teacher of Asian culture and he was getting laid. Except: he was addicted to living with his parents.

His parents tried everything to kick him out of the family (even suing him).

It's a great Comedy. I recommend everyone to watch it. The Word: "Tanguy" is now used in the French world to describe this kind of millenial.

Alot of them are over Protected with a fear of the unknown.

However, some of them are hugely in Student Loan debts, and some coming back from divorce.

It think it's around 35% of millenials around 30 that live with their old folks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My jeep broke down at the gas station, so I went to buy the replacement part and changed it right there in the gravel parking lot. What on earth would some pansy as man do if his car broke down in the middle of nowhere?
He'll take a picture and then post it on social media, then moans and belittles the manufacturer of said car, of course all his buddies on social media will like it and continues with the moaning.

Then when satisfied with the replies and likes, and before his phone runs low on batteries, he'll call Uber for a ride back.
 

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Here is the best part...

Within the next 10-20 years this useless generation that will dominate the political, economic and social future of this country.

Demographics is Destiny... We are doomed.
 

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Here is the best part...

Within the next 10-20 years this useless generation that will dominate the political, economic and social future of this country.

Demographics is Destiny... We are doomed.
They r not useless lmao.

They do need guidance, I'll grant you that.

Ive often spoken the on role of mentoring and that's where gen X must play an important role; to pass on the baton.

Edit: With proper leadership, you can lead a fvcked up crew to win.
 

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Can't they just kick him out? In Japan, there is a special word for this.... single men there started doing this decades ago. They just sit in their rooms on the computer. No job, no girlfriend, no life..... miserable. Are we going 'Japanese'?
But, what is there to strive for?

Cratered smv? Raise Chad's baby? Marry Chad's booty call?

A wing of mine is a bit nuts. He pulls from tinder or goes to strip clubs. He pays for the girl to suck him off. They do for the right price.

I believe in God/being. This seems outright insane but, I totally get it. Guys like Dan Bilizarin are similar. Lots of hookers,escorts, call girls, ig ass models.

There's something to be had with putting in work. I definitely get it though. I think it is a dangerous road to take.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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