The Looker Wants Me To Go After Her Friend

[Renault]

So I met a couple of 30-somethings this weekend at a bar/restaurant who are actually younger than me.

I wasn't gonna ask for their number myself as I didn't think we had talked long enough to establish attraction. However, upon leaving, the good looking girl asks for my card. I didn't have any so she took out her own card and also wrote her friend's number on there.

I texted the looker but got the "I've already got plans" when I suggested a meetup. Then she suggested that I text her friend as "she's really fun, blah blah."

I'm not at all interested in her friend as she's a complete dog. However, I'm new in town and wouldn't mind turning them into friends. I've already suggested we all get together some day and the looker liked the idea.

How do I handle this situation to turn them both into friends so I can possibly meet their other friends later on down the road? And what type of activity is best for this strategy?

 

[Glassguy]

She blew you off and her friend is a mutt.

How is this even a question? Just ignore her and find more women.

 

[dude99]

So I met a couple of 30-somethings this weekend at a bar/restaurant who are actually younger than me.

I wasn't gonna ask for their number myself as I didn't think we had talked long enough to establish attraction. However, upon leaving, the good looking girl asks for my card. I didn't have any so she took out her own card and also wrote her friend's number on there.

I texted the looker but got the "I've already got plans" when I suggested a meetup. Then she suggested that I text her friend as "she's really fun, blah blah."

I'm not at all interested in her friend as she's a complete dog. However, I'm new in town and wouldn't mind turning them into friends. I've already suggested we all get together some day and the looker liked the idea.

How do I handle this situation to turn them both into friends so I can possibly meet their other friends later on down the road? And what type of activity is best for this strategy?

Dude, chicks are naturally competetive and catty to eachother. Any time a chick gives you her friends number, she can't express any deeper how un-interested in you she is.

If you want ro keep being friends, sounds like the hot one has already friend zoned you. You're friends.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

What are you two guys doing?

@Renault don't listen to them.

Am I the only one reading this understanding the confidence and abundance of this guy? He gets it. He understands that he was turned down and he ate it like a man and asked about what he can do to use these women to get other women!

@Renault its happened to me before. I would say next time you are planning on going to the bars...take a plate with you and let these women know you'll be hanging at a bar with a female friend and they should come and bring their friends to take some shots with you two. If they come they come...and you'll use them in some pre selection strategy. If they don't, they don't...who cares.

 

[skinnyguy]

Ask for a three way

 

[zekko]

This is a win/win for the attractive girl. She pawns the OP on her unattractive friend, her friend gets a date so they can all go out and have fun, and the attractive girl gets the validation of having him around knowing that he'd prefer to have her.

 

[Glassguy]

Just ghost.

 

[The Duke]

If you really want them as friends like you stated, then ask them both to meet you out for drinks/top golf/bowling/concert/whatever sometime. No big deal, nothing special needed.

I wonder if the hot girl was trying to help her ugly friend out?

 

[Who Dares Win]

Happened to me a couple of times, I approach 2 girls of different score and the hot ones tries to set me with her friend.

She is basically communicating that she doesnt have any interest in me and second that she doesnt even consider me a man good enough to get any better than her friend.

The fact that she is openly and directly trying to set me even signal that she believes Im not even that worth in personality.

Surely not the best base to establish any friendship, even using them to get to new people will be a failure cause you surely dont get introduced in the best way, think or a reverse social proof.