"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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K, most of the stuff on this site is basically oriented towards getting chicks based on the being a DJ, but a DJ not only gets the girls, he's the life of the party. So what I want to know is what are some ways to make yourself more energetic, fun, spontaneous, and wild. This basically has to happen from within yourself so I wanna know what should i do?

I'm in the middle right now of a lone rider and a socializer, I want to be the socializer. The person who could turn a dead party into a live one like my father. Basically the person everyone wants to be around. I know the first step to this is getting off my a$$.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am not trying to be funny, but did you just ask how do you be more energetic, fun, spontaneous, and wild?

... By being more energietic, fun, spotnaneous, and wild.


Lol, If I have to tell you how to be spontaneous, than it isn't being spontaneous anymore is it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cocaine would work


The REAL secret though is to honestly 100% not care what ANYONE there thinks about anything you do. AND to do things that will enhance the party for you. (these things usually involve other people, such as telling cool stories because you want to, chanting in drinking games, making up wierd nicknames for people)

You have to be the one who gives the FUN to the party. The only way to get better at doing that (since it really does have to be spontaneous) is to actually KEEP GOING OUT AND TRYING STUPID SHLT UNTIL YOU GET IT!
 
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Originally posted by animal crackers
Cocaine would work


The REAL secret though is to honestly 100% not care what ANYONE there thinks about anything you do. AND to do things that will enhance the party for you. (these things usually involve other people, such as telling cool stories because you want to, chanting in drinking games, making up wierd nicknames for people)

You have to be the one who gives the FUN to the party. The only way to get better at doing that (since it really does have to be spontaneous) is to actually KEEP GOING OUT AND TRYING STUPID SHLT UNTIL YOU GET IT!
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really good advice, last night i went with 5 friends (3 girls and 2 guys) in the woods with a tent for the night. we were all pretty scared, since there were lots of somewhat dangerous animals all around the tent... how did i help ourselves to relax and loosen up? i turned off the little torch we had, hide it and started making animals-like noises and scratching the tent. everybody was scared now, so i jumped all over them screaming and they almost passed out. guess what? after that, we were all laughing and stuff... and i started making up nicknames as you said... a girl i nicknamed her "hairy nipples" (she has almost no hair on her body, that's why it's funny), another one was "drive-in forehead" and so on... plus, i spent the rest of the night dreaming with 2 girls beside me hugging me:D
 
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