"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The life of the party...

BxPrince24

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K, most of the stuff on this site is basically oriented towards getting chicks based on the being a DJ, but a DJ not only gets the girls, he's the life of the party. So what I want to know is what are some ways to make yourself more energetic, fun, spontaneous, and wild. This basically has to happen from within yourself so I wanna know what should i do?

I'm in the middle right now of a lone rider and a socializer, I want to be the socializer. The person who could turn a dead party into a live one like my father. Basically the person everyone wants to be around. I know the first step to this is getting off my a$$.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker

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I am not trying to be funny, but did you just ask how do you be more energetic, fun, spontaneous, and wild?

... By being more energietic, fun, spotnaneous, and wild.


Lol, If I have to tell you how to be spontaneous, than it isn't being spontaneous anymore is it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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animal crackers

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Cocaine would work


The REAL secret though is to honestly 100% not care what ANYONE there thinks about anything you do. AND to do things that will enhance the party for you. (these things usually involve other people, such as telling cool stories because you want to, chanting in drinking games, making up wierd nicknames for people)

You have to be the one who gives the FUN to the party. The only way to get better at doing that (since it really does have to be spontaneous) is to actually KEEP GOING OUT AND TRYING STUPID SHLT UNTIL YOU GET IT!
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by animal crackers
Cocaine would work


The REAL secret though is to honestly 100% not care what ANYONE there thinks about anything you do. AND to do things that will enhance the party for you. (these things usually involve other people, such as telling cool stories because you want to, chanting in drinking games, making up wierd nicknames for people)

You have to be the one who gives the FUN to the party. The only way to get better at doing that (since it really does have to be spontaneous) is to actually KEEP GOING OUT AND TRYING STUPID SHLT UNTIL YOU GET IT!

really good advice, last night i went with 5 friends (3 girls and 2 guys) in the woods with a tent for the night. we were all pretty scared, since there were lots of somewhat dangerous animals all around the tent... how did i help ourselves to relax and loosen up? i turned off the little torch we had, hide it and started making animals-like noises and scratching the tent. everybody was scared now, so i jumped all over them screaming and they almost passed out. guess what? after that, we were all laughing and stuff... and i started making up nicknames as you said... a girl i nicknamed her "hairy nipples" (she has almost no hair on her body, that's why it's funny), another one was "drive-in forehead" and so on... plus, i spent the rest of the night dreaming with 2 girls beside me hugging me:D
 
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