"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Laugh At Yourself Thread

Gubby

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Gubby said:
Update: I've just been thinking (I do that a lot ;) ) Well, I've tried applying this laughing at yourself thing to more and more things about my life. Bascially my idea was just to find all the things that were absurd about myself and laugh at them.

It's INCREDIBLE. I had an anxiety that was obviously irrational and I couldn't find any rational (NLP, TA etc) way of solving it. Just now? I decided to focus on how ABSURD I was being, and LAUGHED at myself, and BAM! It's gone!

LOL I'm such a nutter. Trying to take humour seriously! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Bump!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ol'BlueEyes

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24-hour rule

When anything bad happens, sleep on it. If you can laugh about it the next day, it's all good. The bad times are never as bad as they seem (and the good times don't last long enough).
 

HandyAndy

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I was walking upstairs to my class with a girl and i tripped and almost ate it. LMAO, now that I think of it, it was pretty damn funny. I regained my balance and we both laughed our asses off.

PLEASE LAUGH AT ME!!!!!!!!!

kjashflkjsa';
 

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A few years ago, A friend of mine was sad because this b1tch totally played him and as we passed her in the halls something just took control of me and I looked at her with the biggest smile of my life and just shouted "HELLO B1TCH!"

It was so fvcking funny. I'll never forget the look on her face lmao
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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