"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Laugh At Yourself Thread

Gubby

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Gubby said:
Update: I've just been thinking (I do that a lot ;) ) Well, I've tried applying this laughing at yourself thing to more and more things about my life. Bascially my idea was just to find all the things that were absurd about myself and laugh at them.

It's INCREDIBLE. I had an anxiety that was obviously irrational and I couldn't find any rational (NLP, TA etc) way of solving it. Just now? I decided to focus on how ABSURD I was being, and LAUGHED at myself, and BAM! It's gone!

LOL I'm such a nutter. Trying to take humour seriously! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Bump!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ol'BlueEyes

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24-hour rule

When anything bad happens, sleep on it. If you can laugh about it the next day, it's all good. The bad times are never as bad as they seem (and the good times don't last long enough).
 

HandyAndy

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I was walking upstairs to my class with a girl and i tripped and almost ate it. LMAO, now that I think of it, it was pretty damn funny. I regained my balance and we both laughed our asses off.

PLEASE LAUGH AT ME!!!!!!!!!

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TheEdgeOf

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A few years ago, A friend of mine was sad because this b1tch totally played him and as we passed her in the halls something just took control of me and I looked at her with the biggest smile of my life and just shouted "HELLO B1TCH!"

It was so fvcking funny. I'll never forget the look on her face lmao
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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