"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The last week

Awkward

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Ok, last year I was a real major geak in the class. I didn't care for my body or my socializing a bit. My conficence had sunken through the floor down in the basement, and i was shy as hell, as I didn't dare to SPEAK to a girl.

This year however I changed class. A week before the school started I found this gold mine of advice and thought "I'm the f*cking king of the world" when I read it. Not only did I lack confidence and respect to myself, I had the worst "nice guy"-attitude thought possible. So I decided to change.


The day before school started I went out to buy clothes, shaving stuff, shoes, aftershave, cologne, hairstyling-things and all what a man can need. I also started doing some training with weights.

I went to school with the new "I'm the f*cking king of the world"-attitud and clothes I felt very sexy in. The first day, I looked people in the eye and smiled instead of carefully study the lines in the floor like I used to do. Hey, the confidence boiled in me, I felt stronger and more bad-ass than never before. I held my head high and showed who was the man. I dared to speak in public, with people I had never seen before. Yes I used to be SUPER-SHY, and started to blush when spoken to.

The next day I had talked with almost every person in the class and I was actually the only one confident enough to approach people in there. Now I know almost everyone in there, and I am not the best friend with all the geeks any longer, I have realized that they only tie you down and follow you around, allthough they are nice to be with.

Tomorrow I will ask a girl out that I really like, if she don't like me I will not sit down and feel sorry for myself, it's her loss and there will be lots other girls that will fight for me, I hope


Well, thats my story of the last week. It may not sound but much, but I have never felt better in my entire life, for once in my life I really like myself, and enjoy living. =D

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"'Nobody is perfect' says the general rule 'There are always an exception to every rule, and I am the proof of that statement. In other words, I'm f*cking perfect.' :)"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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tome4

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Yep, confidence does that for ya.

Funny thing in the beggining I also had to dress good to feel that much confident (when wasn't groomed and all I felt some less confident and more shy), and now even when I dress slopy, don't shave or comb my hair I get looked at by hot girls.It is in my blod now, and that is the next step you will take my friend.

Just be carefull, coz you will always go 2 steps forward, 1 step back.
Don't let that step back stop you for a long time, as it did me...
 

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Funny thing in the beggining I also had to dress good to feel that much confident (when wasn't groomed and all I felt some less confident and more shy), and now even when I dress slopy, don't shave or comb my hair I get looked at by hot girls.It is in my blod now, and that is the next step you will take my friend.

Just be carefull, coz you will always go 2 steps forward, 1 step back.
Don't let that step back stop you for a long time, as it did me...
Can't wait with that


Thanks for the warning, I know what you talk about from the experience of learning guitar, very the same. Perseverance!

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"'Nobody is perfect' says the general rule 'There are always an exception to every rule, and I am the proof of that statement. In other words, I'm f*cking perfect.' :)"
 
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