"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The ladder theory

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women seem to especially like it if you are more devoted to your bad music, biker gang, forearm tattoo or marijuana. These all seem to work wonders. There are some interests you can show in a woman that will help you to **** her: a healthy interest in destroying her self-esteem and in ****ing her friends more than her seem to work wonders. Note that the following topics of disinterest have been field tested and shown conclusively not to work: Unix, literature, poetry, international politics, and sodomy.
UNIX.... HAHAHAHAHAH :D

On his 'ladder theory':
Clinging to the bottom are the girls that are wolf ugly. These are women so ugly you would chew your own arm off to get away rather than **** them. Usually fake teeth, or the loss of several hundred pounds can move a woman up from wolf ugly.
This guys a comedian.

Ayway, interesting read. The ladder is pretty much a rating system really, other than the fact that he says women have 2 ladders (friend ladder and real ladder). He says that you can't jump from one to the other, which I mostly agree with, but I don't see what the point of a 'friends' ladder (rating system) is if the rating is meaningless (you can't jump across anyway so what use is having a higher 'friends' rating?).

Criticism: You must have too much time on your hands, and you must not be getting laid, to write all this stuff. Lighten up, and [insert one of: grow up, get laid, or get a life.]
lol, my thoughts exactly. This guy's putting too much thought into what is going on when these tiny details don't really matter. Apart from that this could open your eyes a bit at the most. He offers no advice on how to fix yourself up and is pretty negative.
 
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