Statistically isn't only 5% of women BPD? How come guys on this forum make it sound like a huge percentage of women are BPD? You guys seem so ready to just throw the label on any emotional girl whos giving you problems. I think most of the time its just girls being girls... girls are emotional creatures and sometimes make a big deal out of stupid stuff.
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The label BPD is thrown around so often..
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Right on
I know quite a lot about these disorders as I´ve bumped into a histrionic one (I´m SURE she is one), however I avoid labelling all girls as histrionics, "cluster B" (what a name?? uh, wtf?
), psychopaths, etc.... Most of the times they´re only insecure people.
We all have traits of some disorder or other, and that doesn´t makes us insane. No one is 100% normal, btw what is being normal? People take these concepts too far, just like the idea of "being the bad boy" and hurting everyone else, including themselves, in the process.
Nothing is black or white, all or nothing.
It seems as if all girls are BPDs. There´s been a massive amount of posts claming that these girls are BPD. Women are illogical and emotional, so most people around here simply label them BPD!Perseus said:
I know quite a lot about these disorders as I´ve bumped into a histrionic one (I´m SURE she is one), however I avoid labelling all girls as histrionics, "cluster B" (what a name?? uh, wtf?
), psychopaths, etc.... Most of the times they´re only insecure people.We all have traits of some disorder or other, and that doesn´t makes us insane. No one is 100% normal, btw what is being normal? People take these concepts too far, just like the idea of "being the bad boy" and hurting everyone else, including themselves, in the process.
Nothing is black or white, all or nothing.
You're right, all women are completely fvcking insane, its scientific fact. If all women weren't crazy, why would so many people necessitate dating sites, or forums such as this one? What varies is the amount of craziness the girl is willing to display. But they're all crazy, and more often than not, slutty too. Unless they're Mormon or something. And I'm talking devout Mormon, cause I've met Mormon girls that ended up stripping at a party we went to later.
Rambocs I agree with your general point, that women are insane. However I don't have (nor will have) enough experience to say that ALL women are crazy. But anyways, goes back to my point... not all women are BPD. I think this forums tends to generalize too much in order to rationalize stuff that can't really be rationalized in scientific terms. I agree completely blue phoenix, especially about the term being a "bad boy" thrown around like an absolute.
Phenomenal One
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that's just another excuse for guys to stick aorund while sum chick is disrespecting them.
i'm tired of seeing chumps get treated like sh!t by woman only to rationalize it as them "just being emotional".
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
While it's true that the percentage of Cluster B girls in the population is very small and that most women are emotional nutcases to some extent, the type of serious mindfvck that drove guys to go on an Internet search which eventually landed them here is often done by a Cluster B. That's why Cluster Bs seem to be over-represented in problem threads here.Perseus said:
There are also girls who may not quite be clinically diagnosed as a Cluster B but exhibit enough traits that for the guys here to have the knowledge of how to recognise and deal with Cluster Bs is invaluable in dealing with them.
Phenomenal One
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i know a chick that exhibits sum traits but her chump boyfriend think it's her being emotional.
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