"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Kiss!

Noob_Lee

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I have read the bible etc and I can get a girl attracted.

But I just don't no how to initiate the kiss.

I don't have the balls to go for the kiss.

How can I fix this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ease

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im also interested in improving this area of my game

any material on this?
 

Lexington

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There is no such thing as a perfect moment to initiate a kiss. You'll know if she's into you. Start out with kino first. If she's comfortable with it, it's a green light. I like to wait for a moment after we share a laugh. Then, just look her right in the eye and go in with confidence.

I used to be a chicken sh*t about kisses too. I used to think you had to wait for the exact right moment like in the movies or she'd reject it. The truth is, if she's into you, she'll accept the kiss whenever. If she's not into you, no matter how smooth you are with it, she'll reject it.

Don't try and sneak it in there. When I was very nervous about going for the kiss close, I'd do it very abruptly and suddenly. Go in there with confidence and make your intentions very clear....lean in and look her right in the eye as you go for it.
 

Pathgen

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just gotta do it, its like jumping in a lake. If the water is cold its gonna be a ***** but once your inside the hard part is over. First time i did it she started a pillow fight and in the middle of it i kissed her. No magic solution just need to get over that hump and not be worried about rejection
 
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