"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Kiss!

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Noob_Lee

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I have read the bible etc and I can get a girl attracted.

But I just don't no how to initiate the kiss.

I don't have the balls to go for the kiss.

How can I fix this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ease

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im also interested in improving this area of my game

any material on this?
 
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There is no such thing as a perfect moment to initiate a kiss. You'll know if she's into you. Start out with kino first. If she's comfortable with it, it's a green light. I like to wait for a moment after we share a laugh. Then, just look her right in the eye and go in with confidence.

I used to be a chicken sh*t about kisses too. I used to think you had to wait for the exact right moment like in the movies or she'd reject it. The truth is, if she's into you, she'll accept the kiss whenever. If she's not into you, no matter how smooth you are with it, she'll reject it.

Don't try and sneak it in there. When I was very nervous about going for the kiss close, I'd do it very abruptly and suddenly. Go in there with confidence and make your intentions very clear....lean in and look her right in the eye as you go for it.
 
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just gotta do it, its like jumping in a lake. If the water is cold its gonna be a ***** but once your inside the hard part is over. First time i did it she started a pillow fight and in the middle of it i kissed her. No magic solution just need to get over that hump and not be worried about rejection
 
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